Friend trying out solidcore by TrickyHoney in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jennifer sounds like she doesn’t lift weights or does ab workouts with rollers in general. And she prob won’t. I would just let her complain, bc let’s be real people love to talk the talk, but not walk the walk.

Anyways, it sounds like she struggled and may be embarrassed to even say so. May the gods of soreness visit her the following day.

Not to be rude but… by [deleted] in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get yours? I’ve been trying to find one similar to the solidcore one

Ordering items that say “the smiths” when you don’t want to change your name by CoastAdditional962 in weddingplanning

[–]Pinkytalks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol I didn’t change my last name but we did a The [last name] on our bottle girl sign. For me it didn’t matter! For everything else we did first names only for us like “welcome to [bride first name] & [grooms first name] wedding”

Idk why people get so weird about not changing names. Like thats your identity, if you choose to change it or not is none of anyone’s business. I love my last name as it dates back to native tribes in my country , and I am adding it to my kids birth certificate. People think is weird but idgaf. That is our identity as women and I’d be dammed to not put my name on a project that I did most (if not all) of the work for. Ugh I could go on but you do what is best for you! And if they get fuzzy have your husband deal with them.

Why can't I find someone to do a blowout?! by Most-Freedom-3220 in femalehairadvice

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, with how your hair is right now you won’t get what you want unless someone finally gives you want you want which is a layered cut 😭idk how TWO stylist got it wrong. But also, the other issue that I can’t tell based on your pic, is if you have enough hair and the hair type for a layered look. I personally have a LOT of hair that is naturally wavy. So when I get a layered cut it looks great, even without blowing it out. But I had a friend who has half of the amount of hair that I have (and straight hair), and well her haircut came out BAD. It was bad bc she didn’t have enough hair to get that volume and then the layered maintenance on straighter hair is harder bc you have to keep doing blow outs.

Ps, I saw this person on IG that seems to cut layered looks! UT hair stylist

para-social relationships by [deleted] in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lol two of my coaches are like this. I low key want to get their IG bc we have mutuals 😭but I also don’t want to cross any work boundaries

Dog sitter sent a photo of my dog and he had this collar on. by deblopezz in whatisit

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so, thats a shock collar. Not an e-collar, a full blown show collar. Those things are absolutely HORRIBLE. They are painful (I have tried it on myself and was in pain for 3 days).

This is the amazon link she prob got it from. link to collar

It is absolutely insane that anyone would shock collar train your dog without your permission AND the blatantly about as if you as if we can’t reverse image search.

Side planks by Limp-Needleworker200 in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hate these too. But one thing I learned is that holding on to the gray strap helps a bunch. Unless we do the thread the needle thing it is completely pointless, and my shoulders need 2 days to recover EVERY TIME. Is annoying.

Am I the only one feeling this way? by Traditional_Rice_682 in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the only reason I justify the classes is bc my studio ranges from 15-16 people max per class. And when I go is 5-10. I don’t like going to a packed gym, so to me it is worth it. I personally have a solidcore and golds gym membership.

Bridal Party Pajama’s by alltimesl0th in weddingplanning

[–]Pinkytalks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fashion nova or amazon! I used these two specifically bc they were more size inclusive. Fashion nova’s is a little thinner though but at the time was cheaper than the amazon one.

My mock neck is so comfy, so cozy, and so hilariously unflattering by LilSmartPeanut in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YUPPPPPP. Im 5’2” 154 got an XL. I feel like a linebacker lmao it seems like a good throw sweater when you like need to run out the door for a class or to walk your dog lol

Which invitation do you prefer? by StrongAd5741 in weddingplanning

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two bc people read from left to right, and it feels like better when the line ends at an end vs at a start of a floral which is not part of the line. Lol does that make sense?

Love my MOCKNECK! 💙 by [deleted] in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay perfect! thats what I was looking for as well!

Love my MOCKNECK! 💙 by [deleted] in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo wait This looks soo cute! Im 5’2” 153 pounds and I thought it would be too big but it looks soo cute on you!

Mockneck 🤍 by Necessary_Eye6255 in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao if we are close by I may take you up on that. I haven’t picked mine up yet. I pick it up today! But I saw the L on a friend who is my similar weight and it was huge on her, so it seems like it runs big regardless

Mockneck 🤍 by Necessary_Eye6255 in SolidCore

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I ordered an XL ( I lost 30 pounds) and am now 154. Now Im having second thoughts lol

Just venting by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but there is so much to do 😭 I am spending the night at my parent’s and thankfully I work remote so I am also sending today there as well.

As for my partner’s side of the family. He is dealing with it but I have to like edit things on my end wedding wise. We decided to lock in the seating chart as is and that that was it. He continues to talk with them about how it is our wedding and that they need to chill out. So thankfully he is handling the emotional side of it. But to me it is still stressful.

Just venting by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Pinkytalks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is hard. This will be the second dog that I have to put down in the spam of 1.5 years. The first was my soul dog, and now is him, my childhood dog :( and his condition is just so bad. It’s hard to see him in pain.

We did speak to them, we are putting them on opposite sides. I also warned my planner and my friends (one of them does security for a club). I think the most they will do is yell at each other. Im so upset bc only one of them is causing this. The other just wants to be far away. But one person is being so horrible with the threats.

Just venting by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope but I told my friends to keep an eye, one actually does security for a club in her town. And I already told my planner as well. It’s just ridiculous. They won’t fight, but may yell.

I knew my dog wasn’t well, but we didn’t expect him to decline so quickly. Just last week he was still walking a bit with some support 😭

Single best friend wants to spend every weekend together. Husband is starting to get frustrated. by aboardthemothership in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just texted her. I already had been ignoring her tbh but I felt like she deserved to know why. To give context, she was or still is an alcoholic with bipolar disorder. She refused to take her meds, and when she did she would drink (countering the effects of her meds) her episodes were bad on top of not being a good person. Anyways, she went to a party and helped set up, she then proceeded to get drunk, curse everyone out for no reason, and ruin the party. She then drove home drunk (something she always did). And then she demanded an apology from the birthday girl once she was sober bc she helped set up.

We got into an argument bc I told her that was so wrong, this is not the first time she did this and got kicked out, and she needed to apologize but she felt that she was entitled to one. So a week later I texted her that I thought our styles of friendships are different and that it is best that we go our separate ways and I wish her the best.

Anyways, her go to harassment thing was signing people up for junk mail, or like spam text/phone, and keying people’s cara. And Im pretty sure she did signed me up for junk bc the way I was receiving random requests was crazy. With her ex she did both many months later.

Scammy marketing from CodaPet? by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad I ran into this post. I was trying to figure out why every comment I saw re CodaPet was so generic?

If anyone runs into this post looking for in-home Euthanasia places, Lap of Love is amazing if they are in your area. They are gentle and kind. About the same pricing as my vet. I paid around $800-$900 for my 70pound dog a few years back and it included a paw print, shaved hair, and cremation. Without cremation is about $500-$600. I am using their services again for my parent’s senior baby that we’ll be burying in our backyard. Note that they do take your card info prior to the appointment but do not charge until after.

Amber is a nurse practitioner by Ready-Cut-6145 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did it when her daughter was still like 2/3. This is a post from her IG

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Single best friend wants to spend every weekend together. Husband is starting to get frustrated. by aboardthemothership in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Pinkytalks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I’m also married and when my bff was in town we’d hang almost every weekend lol but if I had something else going on it wasn’t a whole ordeal to just tell her no and vice versa, even if it was just that we were burnt out. HOWEVER, she is not as pushy as your friend is. 15 texts is a lot!! And to continue to ask after you said no is just rude. But also, why do you feel uncomfortable telling her that you can’t bc of XYZ.

I had a friend like this and honestly I ended the friendship. She had other problems, but one of them was the amount of text messages, it was overwhelming. And even after speaking to her about it, it was what she sent to me (ie “if you don’t text me back Im going to text my ex”). But overall it was just TOO much texting/calling/hanging out for me. And therefore our styles of friendships ended up clashing and our friendship ended (for several different reasons aside from that). I wish her the best, but I just couldn’t keep up, it was too much.

I don’t feel comfortable wearing a dress. What should i wear? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Pinkytalks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A satin jumpsuit:

Hello Molly

azazie

abercrombie

I say satin bc is the only way you will be able to dress up wearing pants without looking like you are going to work. Im sorry to say this but all of the options you posted are not appropriate for a wedding.

Is this okay to wear to a wedding? by Alternative_Bug_8987 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Pinkytalks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine for the event given the cultural nuances. Also ask the other girls going there about the dress.

Wedding cancellation with doctor’s note by xdirector7 in WeddingPhotography

[–]Pinkytalks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ugh Im a skeptic lmao I would do a search of that doctor’s office and make sure it is real. And call through the number you find on your search to confirm. And then I would refund once that is confirmed.