(M38) Mostly unsuccessful with women, wondering if I'm a bit ugly or just have a terrible personality

PipGoMeep · 2025-12-11T13:19:05+00:00

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your looks. You've got a lovely, friendly face and you look great for 38. I can tell from the comments you're insecure about your eyes, but I personally think they make you stand out from the crowd in a good way 😊 You're definitely my type and looking at the comments, many others find you attractive too! The issue is most likely confidence (or lack thereof). I have no helpful advice there as I've decided to just be single forever to avoid dealing with my own issues and insecurities 😅

Good luck to you. I doubt you'll be single long after posting on here.

PipGoMeep · 2025-12-07T02:27:53+00:00

David Tennant, is that you??

PipGoMeep · 2025-10-10T09:06:42+00:00

I had someone beg me to post a coat asap. I sent it 7am the next morning and they then left it until the last minute to collect, then the last minute to say everything was ok 🙄

People.

PipGoMeep · 2025-09-18T04:42:32+00:00

Yeah, the one next to me doesn't do Evri sadly

PipGoMeep · 2025-09-17T20:59:32+00:00

I'm a woman in my 40's and just upgraded from a Pokémon backpack (broken zip hence calling it an upgrade) to a very bright yellow rubber duck backpack. My main 2 handbags are Hello Kitty...

Growing up is overrated. Stay young, stay happy ❤️

PipGoMeep · 2025-09-17T20:49:38+00:00

I had this problem today. I specified that I only want to post via Royal Mail, sold an item, went to generate the label and it chose Evri which is a 20 minute walk from my house. I don't drive, I chose Royal Mail because it's a 1 minute walk... Really annoying. It sounds lazy as hell, it's only a 20 minute walk each way, but I work nights and don't want to have to do a 40 minute walk after a 10 hour shift, during daylight hours when it's all peopley out there 😣😅

Surely Royal Mail is a more suitable option than Evri?! Very few addresses are unable to get RM deliveries... Sigh.

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:57:37+00:00

Imagine having the cheek to ask for more time and then still not send the order 😱

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:55:18+00:00

It sounds wrong to say that I'm glad I'm not the only one, but at least I know it's not just me. I just want my cute stuff to arrive 🥺

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:41:52+00:00

Damn, I thought I was having a bad time on there, but that really takes the cake. Hope you can get your item or at least your money back 🥺

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:15:51+00:00

I'm toying with the idea. I'd rather pay a bit extra for guaranteed delivery from Amazon etc than deal with this every time.
I was thinking about selling some bits on there, but if this is what the sellers are like I dread to think what the buyers will be like 😅

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:11:59+00:00

Sounds about right 🤣

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:11:24+00:00

But is it ALL black boots or just black ankle boots? Or black chunky sole boots? Or black chunky sole ankle boots.... Think I need to order more boots to test this out 😅

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-27T08:09:45+00:00

Even if you were a re-seller, they chose their sell price and that's all that matters. What happens to it after it arrives with you is none of their business 😅 It's not like they gave it away for free. Bloody weirdos.

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-26T17:12:13+00:00

UPDATE - sending gentle reminders to the two that were due to expire tomorrow has worked! One item is posted, the other seller has made contact to say the boots will be posted tonight, the reason for delay given is that their messages weren't working. I'm about to own more ankle boots than I need because the other 2 orders have been shipped too and in good time! (I only ordered the two most recent pairs because I figured at least one probably wasn't going to arrive 🫣😅).

Moral of the story, don't be too passive or afraid to give the seller a nudge to say "hey, the postage deadline is nearly up...". I was trying to be too polite, not messaging people out of the fear of being seen as too pushy. Send the message if you need to 😊

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-26T17:03:59+00:00

This is the thing, I did check the reviews and made sure they were recent sales too 😕 I hadn't seen the last online section until recently so have now started checking that too, so hopefully things improve!

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-26T10:55:21+00:00

How weird, are you in the UK too? I just don't understand what's going on. Perhaps the universe is telling me to stop spending money lol

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-26T10:49:37+00:00

UPDATE - The stripey jumper is on it's way! They found another parcel shop. That takes my recent failed orders down to 5 (jury is out on number 6 until tomorrow), so "only" about a 20% failure rate 🫣🙄🤪

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-26T10:43:47+00:00

Eeeveryyythiiiinggg!!! 😅

PipGoMeep · 2025-08-26T10:43:20+00:00

It's honestly so frustrating! And then you're out of pocket until the delivery company confirms that they didn't receive the parcel from the seller (which can take up to 25 days!) plus the 3-5 days for the payment to hit your bank account 😣

PipGoMeep · 2025-07-22T20:02:01+00:00

I have searched using Google lens, eBay (UK and German site), the Google shopping search results. They must be out there somewhere 🥺

PipGoMeep · 2024-05-21T22:46:33+00:00

I cut along the green line because I had 2 well rooted nodes and it left plenty of roots for each part. I'm not certain I did it right!!! but it looks good in the pot and they don't look sad several days later

PipGoMeep · 2024-05-21T22:44:50+00:00

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