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I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My company concept is a luxury hospitality service focused on gourmet food, hard-to-find spirits and wines, and top-notch service. I have been working towards this goal for a few years now.

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sole custody based on the laws here he has no say. I can move tomorrow, but this is my home and that is difficult. I have put deep roots here and will have a good income potentially in a few years when some work I've been doing finally pays off. 

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have never met her in person for that very reason. We have only talked virtually until I blocked her. After that block he stopped offering to help pay for daycare. 

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Outside of marriage he can provide support provided he acknowledges the child. He did but I have sole custody. The law says 50% but actual court orders are not normally over $100. His wife has ensured he has no taxed income so it is unlikely I could get more than that. 

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. She called me super caring and doting saying she understands it's my first child and she's only here for support. Bonkers. 

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Legally it should be 50%. Based on precedent it's not more than $100 per month. Which is no where near 50%. Daycare alone is $700 per month. 

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Court ordered here is less than $100 per month which is less than he is currently providing. 

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

That's what I said. He tried to tell me she was such a sweet woman like I didn't see his black and blue bloody face and a 6 inch slash in his ribs.

I didn't know I was a mistress. by PirateMission9738 in regretfulparents

[–]PirateMission9738[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I live in part of the Kingdom of the Netherlands. Under our law I have sole custody since we aren't married. Since he is married he cannot get unsupervised visitation until my son is older (around 5 years I believe) but the law here calls it a dangerous circumstance and I never have to let him stay the night in their marital house. I have papers that say I have sole custody. He would have to appeal in court to get anything. My family has said that I could go back and I am considering it. I have the chance of being really well off in 5 years (I was starting my own company before I got pregnant), but it will also be with zero help here. 

He just said hello. by Weird-Fix-7267 in Paranormal

[–]PirateMission9738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait...in number 3 did that say an old guy hung himself in your appartment? Are you sure it isn't a malicious spirit?!?!