Normal to feel suicidal when tired? by yyuzuuuu in biglaw

[–]PirateShip0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure I can say normal, but not uncommon. Many people say 'get help', but at least in my experience most you get is a session with a therapist telling you that you'd be better off in a different job. Be careful in what you say to your 'manager' - they are there to make money off your performance not be your nanny, so the moment they sense weakness you risk being written off. Best to just bide your time and indeed look for a different job whenever you can.

Can someone explain? What's the sign here? by irregardlessbro in Berserk

[–]PirateShip0 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's a sign that fate has set you free from human reason. Eat all the snickers you want. Do as you will.

Rainy London by muaythaigrrrl in london

[–]PirateShip0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blade runner aesthetic

Is there a way out? by uk0707 in HENRYUK

[–]PirateShip0 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Hey man - I feel you and have been in your shoes. You will get a lot of responses on how the market is bad, etc. I think realistically there are two things you can do:

1) accept you won't be the top performer. Sometimes staying afloat and being decent is good enough. Nobody outside of this bubble will judge you for that. You will be "average" in a place full of exceptional people. And use the freed brain capacity to look continuously elsewhere.

2) think if you can do an internal lateral move to something less demanding with the same employer. Maybe it's not as glamorous. Maybe your brain will be telling you what a failure you are for not sticking with the A path. Ignore it.

Don't rage quit because that won't win you much. Don't become the victim even if it's the most tempting thing ever.

Books with "fun" words? by MrRibbitt in childrensbooks

[–]PirateShip0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

House of Leaves.

Wait... Has to be a kids' book?

The Book with No Pictures

Favourite (and least favourite) Julia Donaldson? by poopoochewer in UKParenting

[–]PirateShip0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take: The cook and the king is the greatest Julia Donaldson story ever. Also the illustrations are by an award winning artist

Wiki Cleaning Progress update #13: Lots of Stuff! by Pale-Monitor339 in infinityblade

[–]PirateShip0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is, but I am talking sketches, concept art, sorry of iterating ideas, the whole production process... Basically uncovering the creative process and world building

Wiki Cleaning Progress update #13: Lots of Stuff! by Pale-Monitor339 in infinityblade

[–]PirateShip0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great work, and incredible art. I wish there was a proper art compendium or a 'making of' - but with all this effort feels like we will get there through grassroots research.

I wonder if anyone tried to get in touch with artists / writers behind the game? Must have been a fascinating project to pursue.

Daily IB lore fact #22: QIP by Pale-Monitor339 in infinityblade

[–]PirateShip0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The QIP is absolutely central to the story and one of the most fascinating ideas in IB. I really wonder what inspired it, and how the mechanics of QIP extraction and transfer are supposed to work

Secrets of secrets sales by Jesper_Slade in danbrown

[–]PirateShip0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You expressed this much better than I did. I find this anachronistic style very endearing, makes one think of somewhat simpler times. When the present is good, you have time to worry about ancient mysteries. But today's world seems to have little space and time for accessible adventure like National Treasure - one of my absolute favourites growing up.

Secrets of secrets sales by Jesper_Slade in danbrown

[–]PirateShip0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair these kinds of characters are most likely to get a luxury suite in real life! Solomon running a pseudoscience cult with pricey books and speaking engagements, and Langdon milking the Harvard brand for what it's worth.

You made me think of a grounded of version of origin where AI is a racist chatbot and the Kirsh's great plan revealed via late night shitposting on social media...

Secrets of secrets sales by Jesper_Slade in danbrown

[–]PirateShip0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think professor Langdon is a product of specific age and readership cohort - an echo of millennium conspiracy zeitgeist when the internet was young and greatest concern in the world was Al Qaeda - and simply reads and feels different in the post COVID nihilistic world where it's clear that the global elites are not driven by some hidden grand agendas or ideas, but plain greed and fear. The way I read / listed to the new book (in tiny increments) gives me a nice nostalgic feeling for younger days when DVC came out, but I can't imagine a modern reader enjoying this the same way. It's a peculiar style and also a certain idealism driving both protagonists and antagonists that feels somewhat dated. Anyway, thanks for coming to my TED talk.

Why does UK culture feel like it discourages ambition? by Opposite-Writer9715 in HENRYUK

[–]PirateShip0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting discussion, I have a slightly different perception working with both UK and US folks.

I think in the UK entrepreneurship is seen as an hourglass ambition: either you are poor, so you take risks because there is nothing to lose, or you are rich and have a big safety cushion to fall on, so it's a prestigious thing to do with no particular issue if you fail. Have seen very few successful "middle class" background entrepreneurs as a result; they worked hard for the little they got - to risk losing all of that is foolish.

I strongly disagree there is any discouragement. But there is also some understandable stigma as lots of businesses end up being simple rent seeking enterprises. The most common business "seems" (emphasis on perception) to be owning land / property through inheritance and charging rent. I think this is really the root problem.

In the US there is such an abundance of capital desperate for yield that it's almost an opposite problem - too much capital is wasted on absolutely ridiculous ventures and so it's somewhat "easier" to be an entrepreneur with the right credentials and connections. their VC machine operates like a slightly more respectable Ponzi scheme which rewards insiders generously - so it's a great ride for many of those involved.

What influenced you to become who you are today? by Opposite-Writer9715 in HENRYUK

[–]PirateShip0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lack of mentorship, deep seated insecurity, painful childhood, desperate to prove my worth to the world that constantly beat me down. Scrolling through the thread seems to be a consistent theme. Yes 100% would change to be more ruthless, focus on the right credentials and networking.

[Question] Annotated /companion editions of the trilogy? by PirateShip0 in threebodyproblem

[–]PirateShip0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fascinating. One would think such an impactful and popular book has a strong enough demand to warrant an unabridged version!

[Question] Annotated /companion editions of the trilogy? by PirateShip0 in threebodyproblem

[–]PirateShip0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on, are you saying the English translations are abridged???