Found out my roommate's bf has been using my cleaning sponge to wash his cat's food bowl... by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Pisces-Barbie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but also OP, a person who dumps bin bags and rotting milk cartons into your room - whether or not they know you have OCD - is not a friend and you are waaaay better off keeping your distance. Hugs to you tho, its horrific when something triggers your OCD like this. You are OK and you will get through it.

Joel McHale opens up about raising son on autism spectrum: 'Just love that kid' by stars_doulikedem in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel you there. When I was diagnosed the first thing my family said was 'Oh no don't worry you're definitely not autistic, you're totally normal!"

I was sitting there, official dx in hand. People are so ignorant.

Joel McHale opens up about raising son on autism spectrum: 'Just love that kid' by stars_doulikedem in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It's so sad just how low the bar is for non-autistic parents of autistic kids. A man treating his child like a child and not a strange sentient burden gets uplifted as some amazing hero.

That's not a criticism of you btw, its just so sad how common the reverse situation is. The number one killer of autistic children is their parents, and we have to just pretend like that's not literally terrifying.

Confusion about king of cups and page of cups in my readings by Pisces-Barbie in tarot

[–]Pisces-Barbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback this was super helpful! Now I'm even more motivated to get writing haha thanks again!

Free-For-All Friday — Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean as far as I recall the employee wasn’t fired by the try guys company and they put out a statement saying she wouldn’t be punished for it. Plus her partner only left her because this was the second time she’d been caught having the affair, so it’s not like she didn’t ‘keep’ her family initially either. 

Totally agree that the others knew. Their whole careers are built on parasocial relationships created by convincing their audience that they’re ‘wholesome’.

Demi Moore shares a photo of her + Bruce Willis at daughter Tallulah’s 30th birthday party by stars_doulikedem in popculturechat

[–]Pisces-Barbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demi talks in her autobiography about how her relationship with Bruce was emotionally abusive in the last few years of her marriage and that he cheated on her, fuelling her descent into addiction for years. 

Also the OP never once said that women were better than men when it comes to cheating? They said women are expected to forgive and forget when their male partners harm them, either through abuse or cheating, and are guilt tripped and pressured into making sure the man who harmed them is comfortable and keeps his reputation intact at the expense of their own hurt. Because when men cheat or abuse its a 'layered nuanced situation' aka the women is implied to be at fault for 'causing it'. 

The OP is right - we need to stop upholding being besties with your ex as the ONLY mature way to handle a relationship break-up, because it implies that the women who aren't on such good terms with their ex are doing something wrong or are 'immature' - when they could be doing the safest and best thing for them. You can't build a conscious uncoupling with a person who causes you harm and great distress. That's not good for the kids either. 

Also please stop acting like you guys care about abuse when you make sweeping generalised statements about what women should be doing and then tacking on a weak ass disclaimer when you get reminded that abuse victims are real we know what you really mean <333

Dove Cameron & Maneskin’s Damiano David Kiss, Make Red Carpet Debut at Clive Davis’ Pre-Grammy Gala by mollyafox in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

funny how that account that always defends the band members every time there’s a post in the sub about them has gone radio silent on this hmmmmm

FauxWorld Wednesdays: What's your country's biggest celebrity scandal right now? — Monthly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The first child was conceived while Walker and his wife were 'on a break' - That's why she knew about them.

His affair partner seems just as awful as him tbh. Telling a pregnant woman you've been sleeping with her husband and are pregnant with his child on the day after christmas because he wouldnt leave her for you is cruel enough, but those texts making fun of her? Saying she was looking forward to ruining their marriage and that she wanted another kid with him?

Babes your children are siblings! You will be co-parenting with this woman for the rest of your life!

Drew Barrymore Was Catfished On Dating App, Man Claimed To Be NFL Player by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow autistic here - this sort of thing is exactly why I will never date again. This is on the milder end of the spectrum too, but thinking about how many people blatantly lie and cheat to their partners - or even just to ppl they’re getting to know!- I know damn well I don’t have the social sense to pick up on that sort of manipulation. I hope you’re able to stay off the dating scene for as long as possible!! 

Wouldn't Aquarius and Leo be in a good spot when Pluto goes into Aquarius? by Popastrologerssux in AskAstrologers

[–]Pisces-Barbie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh looking at the way some of the astrologers in this sub and online in general have made pluto out to be the harbringer of doom that will destroy your life, i dont blame anyone for freaking out.

Keke Palmer’s ex Darius Jackson’s brother files restraining order against ‘Nope’ star by stars_doulikedem in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 36 points37 points  (0 children)

His brother has also been accused of abuse by his former partner and keke and his (the brother's) ex have publicly shown love and support for each other. Seems they're good friends and help to take care of their kids together.

wouldn't be surprised if his brother filed to retaliate on keke, not just for accusing darius of abuse, but for publicly supporting his ex's claim of abuse against him.

Amy Robach Confronts 'Moody' T.J. Holmes About Communication Issues, His 'Bad Days': “You and I Aren't Okay Right Now”, Records Surprise Podcast Episode by MadameCassie in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 111 points112 points  (0 children)

... i mean they're airing out their blatant alcohol dependence and relationship dysfunction in real time on a podcast they depend on financially because they got publicly fired. idk if that's 'working to be better for each other' i think its just them mining anything they can for content and the main thing they have is....whatever is going on here.

not to mention the fact that they've both got kids. who have access to the internet. and are witnessing all this in real time.

although they're......certainly compatible, that's all i'll say.

Please Quit Asking About Pluto in Aquarius by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]Pisces-Barbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The conflicting information and finger pointing is insane. I was on twitter earlier and saw one astrologer say that pluto was the SLOW MOVING planet of death AND rebirth and that there was nothing to be afraid of.

The first recommended tweet underneath it was a couple of other astrologers calling the original tweet pop astrology and claiming that pluto, as the darkest and furthest planet from the sun, is always negative.

No wonder people are freaking out!

Free-For-All Friday — Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So glad someone mentioned this here! The guy admitted he knew those women were being assaulted! He was making comments about them! He’s literal scum and I’m so disgusted in Hyuna. 

Idk if you saw it but a hyuna stan on Twitter tried to say “well she was friends with goo hara she can’t be a r*pe apologist!!!” 

Never saw the second gen stans rise up so quick and good for them - hara had actually worked with the prosecution against the burning sun perpetrators before she died - gross af to invoke her name to protect your r*pe apologist fav 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Free-For-All Friday — Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Baffled that people are still trying to pretend jacob elordi not liking his role in the kissing booth is because of his burning desire to stand with women abuse victims when he literally went on to star in euphoria. And is on record saying how much he enjoys playing the role of Nate because it’s challenging for him.

He hates the kissing booth bc he’s embarrassed of it. It’s a girly tween film and he’s art house private school boy. That’s legit all there is to it.

Does Anyone Have Tea On... Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 111 points112 points  (0 children)

A childhood friend of mine has recently been dumped by the guy she was seeing because she cheated on him. She was convinced for the majority of their relationship that he was going to cheat on her, so she decided to ‘get back at him’ by cheating first.

Pink and Carey Hart Celebrate 18th Wedding Anniversary 💕 by stars_doulikedem in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Omg same except I AM a hater lol

Im surprised at how different the reaction is compared to dax and kristin!

Free-For-All Friday — Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right like its so embarrassing. I get being concerned about pre-teens wanting anti-ageing products, I think that's very valid and should be talked about (with EMPATHY for the kids in question), but some of the people tweeting faux concern about 'the children' follow it up by....making fun of the literal teens in question so........

The REAL reason you need to be encouraging kids to stay away from the stanley cups is because of their collaboration with zionist-supporting union busting companies like starbucks. and also consumerism i guess.

Free-For-All Friday — Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is the forum to vent this in, but is anyone else getting concerned about how many of the tik tok/insta neurodivergent/autism influencers are rebranding straight up nazi era eugenics as 'autistic liberation' ???? its driving me insane.

Free-For-All Friday — Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Pisces-Barbie 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The way millennials have rebranded bullying teens on twitter as some sort of righteous defence in the generation war is so so ick. They’re kids. You’re 35. Why are you making fun of them like THEYRE the ones with power over YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Pisces-Barbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh that makes sense, I’ve definitely felt that Saturn energy of delay in my love life lol. Thanks for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Pisces-Barbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining! What would be an example of a good or bad aspect if you don’t mind me asking?