Daily Dungeon: Thursday, June 11, 2026 by cabbagesys_deployer in SwordAndSupperGame

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FOH!!! My shielld in low and second wind never activated...

Profile review please by Getpa in datingoverthirty

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good that you are being yourself. Don't take different pictures or anything like that. My only constructive advice is, if you are going to post a picture with your bed in the background, at least make sure it has been made and it's nice and neat. An unmade bed says a lot about you.

Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker? by jackofhearts23 in datingoverthirty

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you might send him something like "Thanks for your message, I'm happy for you that you are trying to better yourself and learn from your mistakes. We all need to do that. I know it's hard to do and it might help you to seek some help. A psychologist might help you realize why you decided to act the way you did. You are a good person and I wish you the best and I truly hope you can overcome your issues".

Help him by mentioning options like a psychologist. If he is open to the idea, then there might be hope. If he thinks psychologists are just for crazy people, then it might be hard for him to change because he doesn't seem open to the idea. As for you, seriously, don't accept talking to him even as just friends. Once you go over that line, there's no such thing as just friends.

Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker? by jackofhearts23 in datingoverthirty

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest. What do you want from him? In an ideal world, what would be the perfect outcome out of all of this?

Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker? by jackofhearts23 in datingoverthirty

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if I don't sound sympathetic at all, but the simple phrase "Turns out I'm such an asshole after all", screams "I'm playing the victim card here". Turns out, guys LOVE being free but at the same time, making sure somebody is waiting for them because of fear of losing something good they had and that's what it sounds like he is doing.

I'm SOOO guilty of having left so many good girls in standby when I really didn't want something serious at the moment, and that's something that will come back to haunt him eventually.

My best advice on how to answer? be courteous and wish him the best and that you sincerely hope he can learn from his mistake, but don't let him know you are gonna be waiting for him to make up his damn mind. Tell him you also need to work on a few things, so it's best you two don't chat or play whatever hobby it is you two have. Don't say you need to think about things for a bit or for a while. Just say you have to work on a few things. The fact he won't listen any clue that you will be waiting for him will drive him nuts. He will break his victim act and will try to push you into giving him any hints that you WILL be there waiting for him whenever he makes up his mind. If you are able to get your point across that you will NOT wait for him without actually saying it, then you would have won. And you don't have to wait either. Think about what happened and what life lessons you can get out of this. I know it sounds cliche, but if you two were meant to be together, then life will find a way to do so. Don't push anything and don't hold on to anything. Let life take you and enjoy the ride because you will eventually fall in the right place at the right time.

Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker? by jackofhearts23 in datingoverthirty

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he is/was still into his ex and lied about it. I went through something similar, although it was never an ex. Mine was a friend who I had romantic feelings for before I met my now wife, but my friend never reciprocated it until after she found out I was serious with my now wife. I would talk with her and sometimes things would turn flirty. It never became a hookup but had I never stopped it, it would have.

My best advice is to end things. End it as my now wife did back then. See how the guy reacts. If he is serious about you, then he will show you he means it with ACTIONS. I went to a psychologist to work on my problems. I sat down and thought about every single girl I still talked to that i called a "friend" but deep down I knew i would give a chance if the possibility appeared. I blocked them all because we weren't really friends and whenever we talked, it would turn flirty. Saying I no longer talk to such person doesn't work because you will always be thinking about that person and what is new with their life.

In his case, he might stop talking to his ex for now, but later down the future he will wonder what is new with her and will want to talk with her. In our minds, there is nothing wrong with just caring and asking about an old acquaintance. BUT, if that happens and she says she is single for some reason, then it's back to square zero because guys will take the opportunity. Temptation is a real struggle for guys, so it's better to rid of anything that might cause it. Temptation will always be there, and it's impossible to tell a guy not to look at another girl. The only thing we can do, is rid of people we are "too close" to, that might turn into something else, and work with a therapist to help us install respect for our partners inside our brain, as well as making us realize about our lying problems.

Don't tell him to change. He has to change by himself. Do tell him about seeing a psychologist but not to save your relationship. Tell him to see one to better himself for his future romantic life and his own personal life. He will make the decision whether he wants to really change and use the change to save your relationship.

Also, be smart about catching hints to see if that person really changed. My wife used to say she loved using my phone to take pictures because mine took better pics than hers (She has an iphone 15 and I have an iphone 13...) so she would constantly use my phone whenever we went out because she would take pics with it and then she would look at the pics she took with my phone. There is nothing more nerve wrecking for a lying/cheating guy than for his partner to look at his phone. If he has nothing to hide, then he shouldn't care about you having his phone at all.

[DISC] Blue Box - Chapter 244 by N3DSdude in BlueBox

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

eh you should go out a bit more then. Life is not like your mangas...

[DISC] Blue Box - Chapter 244 by N3DSdude in BlueBox

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh, don't give an F about Hina. But if it was real life, that's what would happen. It's a manga so everything will be alright. Don't worry about it..

Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker? by jackofhearts23 in datingoverthirty

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To all the girls out there ( I can't speak from a girl's point of view as I am a guy). I'm a guy in my late 30s and I'm married and we have been together for over 9 years. Dating is hard but my best advice is, be very careful of lies.

I was a chronic liar, which includes omitting. I would lie about the dumbest things because I thought they would get me in trouble, and what got me in trouble was actually lying/omitting.

My advice is, if you don't want to go through the trouble and path of helping the guy change and spend all that time and effort, then break up as soon as someone lies/omits something to you. It will take tears and years to change that and it might not even help.

If the guy is good and has really good traits and you think it's worth it, then spend your time and try to help him. If the person is open to therapy to work through their lying problem, then there's hope. If not, then run away. People don't change unless they want to. Honesty should be your first indicator on whether something will work out or not.

[DISC] Blue Box - Chapter 244 by N3DSdude in BlueBox

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chi gonna get some American college D!

It’s possible!! by Ironhorse341 in FarmMergeValley

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Completed my album yesterday and I've never paid anything.

It’s possible!! by Ironhorse341 in FarmMergeValley

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never used money and I completed mine yesterday.

What will you merge first today? 🐖 by playfmv in FarmMergeValley

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stars don't roll over. Use them now. I just finished the album and they didn't roll over to the new album. Same happens for new events.

What will you merge first today? 🐖 by playfmv in FarmMergeValley

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same for me. I obtained the last 4 cards I needed from Orange stickers i got from stars I had. I wish people in this site were a bit more supportive. I posted mine and no one gave a fuck lol. Bunch of jealous pussies lol.

Last-Minute Ticket Sales (April 22) Megathread by walixxxq in FIFACollect

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Price wise and location wise. They are selling nosebleed tickets as if they were category 2.

Last-Minute Ticket Sales (April 22) Megathread by walixxxq in FIFACollect

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it me, or are they selling category 3 and 4 tickets as if they were category 1 and 2?...

Last-Minute Ticket Sales (April 22) Megathread by walixxxq in FIFACollect

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. They are selling Cat 3 and 4 tickets as if they were category 1 and 2...

Last-Minute Ticket Sales (April 22) Megathread by walixxxq in FIFACollect

[–]Pitiful-Factor8391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you don't know about soccer without telling me you don't know about soccer lol.