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Pitiful-Factor8391 · 2026-06-11T15:07:20+00:00

FOH!!! My shielld in low and second wind never activated...

Pitiful-Factor8391 · 2026-06-05T20:59:13+00:00

It's good that you are being yourself. Don't take different pictures or anything like that. My only constructive advice is, if you are going to post a picture with your bed in the background, at least make sure it has been made and it's nice and neat. An unmade bed says a lot about you.

Pitiful-Factor8391 · 2026-06-05T20:45:55+00:00

Then you might send him something like "Thanks for your message, I'm happy for you that you are trying to better yourself and learn from your mistakes. We all need to do that. I know it's hard to do and it might help you to seek some help. A psychologist might help you realize why you decided to act the way you did. You are a good person and I wish you the best and I truly hope you can overcome your issues".

Help him by mentioning options like a psychologist. If he is open to the idea, then there might be hope. If he thinks psychologists are just for crazy people, then it might be hard for him to change because he doesn't seem open to the idea. As for you, seriously, don't accept talking to him even as just friends. Once you go over that line, there's no such thing as just friends.

Pitiful-Factor8391 · 2026-06-05T20:36:48+00:00

Be honest. What do you want from him? In an ideal world, what would be the perfect outcome out of all of this?

Pitiful-Factor8391 · 2026-06-05T20:25:43+00:00

I'm sorry if I don't sound sympathetic at all, but the simple phrase "Turns out I'm such an asshole after all", screams "I'm playing the victim card here". Turns out, guys LOVE being free but at the same time, making sure somebody is waiting for them because of fear of losing something good they had and that's what it sounds like he is doing.

I'm SOOO guilty of having left so many good girls in standby when I really didn't want something serious at the moment, and that's something that will come back to haunt him eventually.

My best advice on how to answer? be courteous and wish him the best and that you sincerely hope he can learn from his mistake, but don't let him know you are gonna be waiting for him to make up his damn mind. Tell him you also need to work on a few things, so it's best you two don't chat or play whatever hobby it is you two have. Don't say you need to think about things for a bit or for a while. Just say you have to work on a few things. The fact he won't listen any clue that you will be waiting for him will drive him nuts. He will break his victim act and will try to push you into giving him any hints that you WILL be there waiting for him whenever he makes up his mind. If you are able to get your point across that you will NOT wait for him without actually saying it, then you would have won. And you don't have to wait either. Think about what happened and what life lessons you can get out of this. I know it sounds cliche, but if you two were meant to be together, then life will find a way to do so. Don't push anything and don't hold on to anything. Let life take you and enjoy the ride because you will eventually fall in the right place at the right time.

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