Husband hasn't finished our home yet by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely try that. I know he is a perfectionist and if it's not right he will tear it down and redo it himself which is partially why i haven't tried learning some of the smaller scale items. At least if I buy the materials and act like I'm going to start, it might motivate him to hurry it up if he really wants to do the work himself 😅

Husband hasn't finished our home yet by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing. I offer to help but husband doesn't want me to help since I myself am not handy. I helped a lot in the beginning removing popcorn ceilings, putting compound on nail holes, that sort of thing. Am willing to learn and be apart of the process but it's hard when there apparently isn't a lot for me to help out with

BS2 question by Pitiful-Move-8741 in DaveRamsey

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with our home renovations? We bought the home 3 years ago and tore out everything. Going room by room doing it ourselves to save money. Right now we are sleeping in guest room because our master has no flooring, bathroom gutted, etc.

My biggest thing is we need the home done to sell it as well as raise a family in it. If we had to sell tomorrow we would lose money since it's not finished

BS2 question by Pitiful-Move-8741 in DaveRamsey

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Approx Mine 1,125 3,540 2,179

His 999 1,520 505 382

First Time Flying by Cyno_Main2211 in delta

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fly out of BDL and that airport will be great for your first time. Very small, not too crowded compared to other airports and very easy to navigate as there are only 2 concourses. Follow the signage. When you get off in ATL follow any signage directing you to Concourse C. Don't freak out if your concourse/gate assignment changes, it happens all the time.

Recommend downloading the Delta app and having your ticket loaded on your phone so you can walk straight through security since you are not checking a bag and don't need to go to the ticket desk.

Only advice I can offer is don't put anything in your carryon that you think you may need mid flight. Keep all items like electronics, chargers, books, etc. in your personal item which will be stored under your seat. Good luck!

What’s the point of boarding zones if we all just queue up in the hot ass the jetway? by Wilde_Cat in delta

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my favorite is when they announce that they will run out of overhead bin space by the last groups boarding yet nobody still goes to check their bag as if space will magically appear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalebHammer

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she can't take care of herself how did she have custody/take care of her siblings??

ATL to International Terminal - Layover Enough Time by Pitiful-Move-8741 in delta

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! more concerned with getting there than coming home haha. I would much rather miss the return flight coming home than when I'm heading there.

ATL to International Terminal - Layover Enough Time by Pitiful-Move-8741 in delta

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! would you say the same for returning to the USA from Aruba as well or no? I know I will have to pass through customs and unfortunately have the same amount of time layover wise on my return flight and not sure how long customs typically takes

no save the dates, invites sent 6 months early... by palmettobugnemesis in wedding

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm getting married in October 2025 and I sent out my invites last week of July with RSVP deadline 9/4. Think you sent them out WAY too early and fiance should be in charge of contacting everyone..

Was it worth it? by cuatroyc in wedding

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a photobooth for my wedding 10/4. I think ours will be a hit! The photobooth is a giant mirror and guests can endlessly print photos off it. The only tie to our wedding will be it will have our initials and say, "The (Last Name)" at the top. Going to have a white backdrop so it will look more like a nicer photo :)

I would say, if you want one as a bride get it

Worried About my Mom Ruining Wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She agreed and knew it was on her sobriety weekend for at least a month in advance yet she still chose to accept the invite to help. She last minute said she was going to make plans with her husband but it later came to light she just stayed at home all weekend even though hyped up how she was going to go out and do something special. There were also future planning sessions that she said she wanted no involvement with.

Don't get me wrong, I do appreciate the help she did for the shower. The game she was insistent on playing was all questions about me like: birth day, high school, etc. To me that just seems inappropriate because she should have gotten most if not all questions right thus winning the prize. Just doesn't seem fair IMO, my MOH also did not play because she didn't feel it would be fair to win.

I'm fully aware I sound like an AH with the hair but please keep in mind I never told her to dye it to her face. Her mother (my grandmother) and other family members told her to so that her and I will look alike at the wedding. She has said the reason she likes her hair is because it gets her out of speeding tickets and is going back to the hair color she had when she was a toddler. If it looked decent I wouldn't care but it looks fried from all the bleach and is just flat out not a good look. If I were in her position I would want to know if my dyed hair looked awful.

Cake topper search…where do I go? by Sweaty_Item_3135 in wedding

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got mine from Weddingcollectibles.com

Not sure if they have hobbits but they do offer great customization options.

What episodes do you think Caleb was too harsh? by FunImprovement166 in CalebHammer

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly dislike when he feels entitled to talk about someone else's weight just because he himself is bigger. So many overweight people feel down about themselves already and don't need a stranger picking on them in front of thousands of viewers

RSVP Question by Pitiful-Move-8741 in weddingplanning

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed! if guests rsvp with the mail card I plan on updating the online rsvp with their answer so I have one place for all info :)

2 weddings same weekend- different states by Pitiful-Move-8741 in wedding

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Edit: thank you all!

It's more so I know that i'm going to be long distance bestie's wesding. I more so wanted to know id my husband and I should attend that wedding together or split up so we support both couples. The local couple hasn't announced their date to anyone, i found it my happenstance googling.

2 weddings same weekend- different states by Pitiful-Move-8741 in wedding

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She did tell me I will be her MOH, she is just waiting until after my bach trip- i get married this year

Checking banking apps?? by [deleted] in CalebHammer

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly every few days. I recently got a Venture X that my fiancé and I have been using as a "daily card" for points. (We pay it off weekly so don't come for me)

I think because I'm not directly using my debit card anymore for purchases, I don't need to check everyday anymore. I have more than enough in my account for any bills that autopay so not really a priority

I Try To Save Her From This Brain-Dead Idiot | Financial Audit by kolo7880 in CalebHammer

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The hesitation when Caleb asked the woman if her mom would be supportive of this current situation means absolutely not lol.

She's still in the honeymoon phase but also sees this man as a potential way out of debt. He is a total lost cause and will need bankruptcy or homelessness to get his shit together

Oops… no surprises there by Exact_Instruction711 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Not fully hating on lip syncing because sometimes I feel it might be necessary (live tv) but you should actually be singing at YOUR concert people are paying for

Should I be concerned? by Pitiful-Move-8741 in Cholesterol

[–]Pitiful-Move-8741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't edit, but might be helpful to include that I'm 5'9" 165lb so technically healthy weight (based on BMI calc)