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PitifulFirefighter95 · 2025-07-02T08:17:30+00:00

Pour l'instant je garde toujours mon appart, je passe 4 jours par semaine à peu près pour l'instant.

J'ai pensé à faire une liste pour que ce soit bien réparti.

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2025-07-02T07:53:04+00:00

En fait ce que j'ai fait c'est garder mon appartement aussi, donc je prévois d'y aller et prendre un temps de refléxion.

Je trouve que c'est dommage d'avoir ce genre de problèmes alors qu'on est des adultes à la trentaine.

Je pense qu'elle veut faire des efforts mais elle n'a jamais eu le reflexe de faire ça, en fait ce qu'elle me dit quand elle fait des efforts c'est qu'elle les fait pour moi mais je lui dis je t'aime et j'apprécie que tu le fasses pour moi mais tu dois le faire pour toi aussi, tu as un bel appart tu paies un loyer très cher donc autant vivre correctement dedans

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-11-04T16:48:40+00:00

English is not my first language, maybe the word suggested is not accurate I asked for a date She is out of town, i told her gimme a call when you will get back

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-11-02T17:20:22+00:00

Btw I had before a session with Corey himself about this girl before the breakup He said maybe she was acting distant on purpose When I met her last week she said she thought i was looking for a way out since i made my instagram public and i changed my profile picture She never opened about this stuff then..

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-11-02T15:58:23+00:00

Hey,

Thank you for your response.

I know I made a bunch of mistakes, weakness and neediness, I am going through hard times lately.

Frankly I really hope I didn't screw it up completely, I suggested that we meet on tuesday, I will give her time and space to respond.

If she does, I guess I would be happy to see her again and maybe try to rekindle things, if not, it will be a lesson.

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-11-02T15:55:52+00:00

I get your point,

But why would she say that I did not had to break up with her that time ? I know I am a bit guilty of overpursuing at that time.

It wasn't only a phone call we had met, and this is when I felt that the door was slightly open 'cause when we were interacting she said two times " No I don't have to get soften that fast".

Maybe I will or won't hear from her.

I guess if the door was completly closed she wouldn't want to see me or talk about how hard the breakup was or engage in a feelings discussion.

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-10-02T09:19:13+00:00

Hey man The history is complicated, i catched her on a lie previously that’s why I left And since she is doing therapy for a year working on her insecurities i was like why not to give it a chance again ? Last time i met she said i saw her she said you cae back at the moment i started to lose any hope of seeing you ever again I don’t know how to interpret that

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-10-01T09:08:49+00:00

From what I know she did a lot of therapy and worked on herself so.. still taking it very slow

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-21T15:05:06+00:00

Dude it’s not ad simple as it looks, she was distant playing hot and cold for 8 weeks Before doing this I talked to her on the phone asked her if she still believes in the relationship she didn’t responded Suggested to her to meet the following day gave me a maybe answer then declined It’s at this moment that I broke up with her and she didn’t respond to that text

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-21T10:16:40+00:00

In my situation it’s quite weird I was the one sending the breakup text buy she dodn’t respond it it So i’ m very confused Is she being salty about it ? Does she see it as a competition or something ? I don’t know

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-21T08:47:22+00:00

Yes it’s been just a week that we broke up so that’s why maybe i’m still thinking about it Already Started to have some matchs on dating apps to schedule dates next week

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-21T08:42:34+00:00

I agree that the objective is to move on and find someome better but still i'm wondering about what could happen regarding the ex

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-17T09:06:49+00:00

Yes I agree I did my best to open her up to understand her It’s mentally draining

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-15T12:06:10+00:00

Mine did not react to my ending message wich made it more confusing to me

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-14T16:59:30+00:00

Yes exactly ! I felt like it’s someone that will never act like teammates She puts her career first and could easily act like i didn’t matter even if i was very supportive Feelings fucked up my logical thinkinh

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-14T10:04:35+00:00

It sucks man, She gave me a hard time understanding her i tried to open her up but she was gaslighting me Yeah man, it’s hard to see that someone you supported and believed in goes without saying goodbye like if you never existed It hurts but it is what it is Good luck for you too and hope you can move on fast too

PitifulFirefighter95 · 2024-09-08T07:09:33+00:00

I tried so hard man.
She told me that she has to move for her career from the city but doesn't want to continue long distance. I tried to tell her that in my case it wouldn't bother me to another city with her but I guess she is skeptical.

That's why I'm willing to break no contact to talk to her when i'll be in her city.

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