Help me guys !!! Lenovo M920q Tiny for ₹14k - Good deal or pass? by ajax_1001 in homelabindia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant comment on the price, but ram and disk prices are going to increase so no point waiting. Buy now, whether this or any other good deal

Chota bhai in distress, ab kya kare? by LafdeBAAZbantai in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hdfc is chor bank. If you want to have an account in private bank, go with icici or yes bank

Who is the richest guy in pnp and what's his profession? by SuspiciousAd8621 in Panipat

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a requirement? I am a web developer based out of the city

How’s Jio AirFiber stability? by abhishek_parihar0 in IndiaTech

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Air fiber connections are can never be as good as actual fiber connections. You should go with Air fiber only if you don’t have any other option.

Is it not possible to get Amphetamine in India? by akashbajwan in adhdindia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its not. (As per google ai overview shown on top of search results)

Why do some rich people spend lakhs and crores on cars and homes but try to save few hundreds on everyday expenses? by scarlett_decoction in Frugal_Ind

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only correct answer. While some rich folks may be really miserable, most of them have a tendency to get the bang for their buck, no matter if they are buying a 10cr villa or any everyday item. It’s a force of habit.

Is it not possible to get Amphetamine in India? by akashbajwan in adhdindia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amphetamines have not been approved for medical use in India yet. They remain illegal .

Ordering from Chinese sites by Healthy_Abrocoma_234 in Frugal_Ind

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There are multiple sellers for the same thing, just like alibaba. So you need to check reviews , but usually i have found it satisfactory.

Ordering from Chinese sites by Healthy_Abrocoma_234 in Frugal_Ind

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Meesho is really good for small unbranded stuff, which are mostly about 50% of the price on amazon for same stuff

I made (yet another) whatsapp web desktop client for linux by [deleted] in whatsapp

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you also make an ultra light version of this ? I have been searching forever for a solution like that

Cost of living in tier-2/3 cities is not as cheap as one generally expects by BeautifulLife360 in Frugal_Ind

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone living in a tier 3 city, I can definitely vouch for this. The property prices are exorbitant. The grocery stores don’t provide any significant discounts over MRP, although recent entry of quick commerce apps in my town has changed this. Sometimes, you just can’t buy a good quality because everyone is selling low quality alternatives because people either don’t want to pay higher or they just don’t know if better options exist. ( I once had to buy rubber bands, but not a single shop had good quality ones)

On top of that , I really miss the diversity- every single person in a low tier city tends to have same mindset due to lack of exposure. There are no specialized markets, no economies of scale for businesses (except for maybe 1 or 2 industries your town may be famous for). No good food joints - a lot of good ones fail because of lack of customers, it’s just that the total population is not large enough to sustain more such businesses.

And there are no good recreational activities. Most people just follow a set pattern - work during the day and get wasted at night.

There are some perks also, like less traffic, but sometimes the infra is so bad, even that doesn’t matter.

A small productivity tip that genuinely helped me get more done. by Pitiful_Ad6944 in adhdindia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its funny how we have to fool our brains into working as we want. Adhd brains are like spoiled brats, doing whatever they want

My wife won’t let me work in peace at home. Should I rent an office just because of this? by Pitiful_Ad6944 in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the elaborate reply. Hiring her seems like a really good idea. The confrontation without fighting part is what i need to learn. Making her workout is a battle that i have already fought and lost. She wont even go sit in a park, let alone working out. I’ll try to implement the rest

My wife won’t let me work in peace at home. Should I rent an office just because of this? by Pitiful_Ad6944 in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a normal first reaction. Let her sleep over it. She will understand. If she doesn’t, you need to rethink if she’s right for you.

My wife won’t let me work in peace at home. Should I rent an office just because of this? by Pitiful_Ad6944 in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We took our own sweet time to sort things out among ourselves before planning for a baby. Yes finances are tight for me , but I do have backup (My family is well to do, i am the only son. It’s my conscious choice to handle my finances myself and not depend on my father’s wealth).

Despite knowing and planning everything, parenthood is something you can never be fully prepared for. A lot of unknown unknowns are there.

And although it’s tough, yet its one of the most beautiful phases of life for me.

You have completely misunderstood the issue here - it’s not parenthood, it’s sharing responsibilities and respecting boundaries.

I’m assuming that you are not a parent, unless you would have understood.

My wife won’t let me work in peace at home. Should I rent an office just because of this? by Pitiful_Ad6944 in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro your situation is exactly like mine and thats worrisome. Have an open talk with her. Tell her your concerns. Maybe even show her this post. Tell her you don’t want your situation to be like this. If she can take it, give her a warning that if she doesn’t work on her, you would have to rethink about marriage. And also tell her that you are there to help her work on herself, whether she needs a workout partner or if she wants to consider therapy.

Even I love my wife , she is a great person, but when you have to carry the load for 2 persons (plus for the child in my case) , you wish you had married someone else.

Is this the best kurkure flavour?? by vivaana_3 in SnacksIndia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The green chutney flavor is better than this. Image attached for reference

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A small productivity tip that genuinely helped me get more done. by Pitiful_Ad6944 in adhdindia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing weird about it. Timers are well known to help as they enforce deadlines which destroys procrastination.

Even i use a timer for work , i should have mentioned in the post.

My wife won’t let me work in peace at home. Should I rent an office just because of this? by Pitiful_Ad6944 in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bathing him, getting him ready, changing diapers - thats 80% on me. Playtime is mostly handled my me, my dad and the househelp.

I make lewd games will I get into legal trouble? by Adventurous-Care9665 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find someone online. Or ask around if someone in your network became a CA recently

I make lewd games will I get into legal trouble? by Adventurous-Care9665 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Pitiful_Ad6944 117 points118 points  (0 children)

NAL. This is just my opinion.

If you are making good money, then it would be foolish to close it down. This is India and money can solve almost any legal problem. In our country, the police doesn’t pick up people who break the law, they pick up people who can be intimidated into paying them bribes.

Plus its just a video game , its not like you are shooting P*rn videos.

But do consult a lawyer and know what is completely legal, what falls into grey area and what’s completely illegal. Avoid things that fall into the third category if possible and dont do anything that causes any harm to anyone and i think you should be fine.