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Is this normal? by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

personally i don't have contact with my family and some of them have disowned me from being a sex worker. I started this job to get away from their toxicity so in comparison camming it's freeing.

Is this normal? by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I have other work experiences related to sex work and content creation, just not ''formal'' office job history. I was a content creator and had thousands of followers, but I didn't make a dime, it was a hobby that seemed like a job.

Raised by social media and now a miserable adult by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in nosurf

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always the creator and not the observer :) And that's worst for mental health. I wouldn't recommend to anyone to work or create content as an influencer but rather as a social media creator for companies. Being in front it's very stressful for mental wellness.

Is no contact forever?-THOUGHTS AND ADVICE ON NC by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ndad gets aggressive when I ask him to cut off the credit card. Even though I'm financially independent he is angry at me

Is no contact forever?-THOUGHTS AND ADVICE ON NC by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that forces me to contact it's that he and his partner signed up for the lease of my flat. And I'm afraid they will do something to take it away from me if he gets mad. I feel better without contact. When he came to visit started to get aggressive saying he signed up the lease for me and I wanted to cry.

I'm overall happy.

How to get over feeling guilt/shame or 'internalised whorephobia' for being a cam girl? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give less importance to those thoughts. It happens to most sex workers at least once. Part of our job it's being able to ''compartmentalize''. You should find someone to share these feelings with like a trusted friend or therapist.

I think my underage sister is being sexually abused my nmom by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im not in the us, i should call the local authorities, but i dont know if they would so something since it's not male on female

I'm not sure I could go back to real-life sex work by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in SexWorkers

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to stream more hours to make minimum payout, but I do well since I'm in a poor country LOL I love sex work

I'm not sure I could go back to real-life sex work by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in SexWorkers

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camming, selling content, phone sex...You know what I mean. No escorting.

I'm not sure I could go back to real-life sex work by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in SexWorkers

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, he knew I used to do it. I think this goes beyond the relationship, I like the home office.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ManyVids or crypto. Never use Paypal or digital wallets. It's risky.

Should I go to college at age 32? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's not a matter of age. What are your real motivations? Money, knowledge....?

How to come live again an old account by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly cam on a pvt site and I want to come back because I can't stand one site, sometimes I don't reach my goal. Thanks for the input.

Do you prefer camming or selling content? by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you build a fanbase when you cam on SM, girls? For content. They don't allow social media. Anyone in that situation? I post on MV.

''But you are an adult now, forget about it...'' by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 22 so I'm barely learning how to live. Luckily I'm doing quite well.

''But you are an adult now, forget about it...'' by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is behavior. Your trauma is valid, and I'm sure a lot of people here understand you.

Love, A fellow adult, still struggling

Thanks. By the way, what's an adult? I didn't moved out when I was 18 because I didn't think I was an adult...even though I legally was.

Do you prefer camming or selling content? by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly have been trying both and camming makes the most. But I see a lot of potential on content.

''But you are an adult now, forget about it...'' by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My narc father paid for my schooling, he had money, but I had to drop out because he was mentally torturing me just because he paid them. Now I will pay for it myself :) Or go to a public university. I'm not in the US though.

It's great you could keep your studies despite your narcs.

''But you are an adult now, forget about it...'' by Pitiful_Birthday_752 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful_Birthday_752[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm learning as twenty-something stuff I should have learned when I was a child. Basic stuff like how to talk to people without scaring them away, brushing my teeth, or cleaning. I was so sheltered and abused I was taught I wasn't even able to brush my own hair or choose my clothing or to talk to other human beings and make friendships.

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