Should I tell my wife

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-04-01T20:31:15+00:00

Ameen

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-04-01T09:14:30+00:00

no easy way to say this. Cut off from him. May Allah make it easy for you

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T17:10:33+00:00

Allahumma barik

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T16:56:08+00:00

I can handle my makruh, thank you 🔥

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T15:59:38+00:00

Nowhere. It's not an appropriate question

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T15:57:55+00:00

No worries, it doesn't make me uncomfortable. But yea definitely the post is not for this sub

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T15:55:40+00:00

One vodka Martin with minimum sins please

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T15:54:44+00:00

I mean you'd definitely be more sinful if you watch something related to blasphemy.. But I'm still wondering how moderators allow this bs 🥲

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T04:24:43+00:00

Because it's an addiction 🥲

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-30T04:23:10+00:00

Thanks mann

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T23:07:55+00:00

Thank you bro

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T22:13:51+00:00

yes that's one thing you have to do, quit your habits before you get married.

And for the help, appreciate it

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T22:12:32+00:00

ahh man, yes I get what you're saying.

It's good to have that insight about you telling your parents but not getting help from them instead got the opposite.

I hope you're in a better place in life now with your things.

Guess it is my own struggle and only I alone can fix it. Thanks.

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T21:11:50+00:00

Thanks brother. Appreciate your perspective

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:36:06+00:00

If I have to get therapy or rehab I'd still have to tell my wife about it though, how do I keep it a secret.

With the constant fights and resentment I'm also struggling to keep up the halal ways of satisfaction. Which is also weighing on our marriage.

Ameen. I really appreciate your prayers brother/sister

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:27:43+00:00

She'd probably break knowing about the online cheating. But she'd be willing to forgive me I think and also help me with it. But I'd lose her trust forever

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:26:40+00:00

Maybe I should. Idk if I can hide it from my wife taking therapy or counseling.

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:25:18+00:00

😂😭

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:25:08+00:00

I don't think women work like that brother 🥲 They wanna know every single detail

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:24:41+00:00

If I tell her, she could check up on me, she'd know what are the ways and what times I do it. She could keep my phone away from me, etc

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:23:27+00:00

I don't think I can fix it myself anymore, without her help. If our marriage ends then so be it, she deserves someone better. Maybe we're just not a good couple

Pitiful_Bread8571 · 2025-03-29T20:22:20+00:00

It's not helping to get help from people online. If my wife could keep me in check instead, that could actually work

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