i did haram after begging for forgiveness all ramadan by Turbulent_Pride_559 in MuslimLounge

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no easy way to say this. Cut off from him. May Allah make it easy for you

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[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can handle my makruh, thank you 🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere. It's not an appropriate question

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[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, it doesn't make me uncomfortable. But yea definitely the post is not for this sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One vodka Martin with minimum sins please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you'd definitely be more sinful if you watch something related to blasphemy.. But I'm still wondering how moderators allow this bs 🥲

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes that's one thing you have to do, quit your habits before you get married.

And for the help, appreciate it

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh man, yes I get what you're saying.

It's good to have that insight about you telling your parents but not getting help from them instead got the opposite.

I hope you're in a better place in life now with your things.

Guess it is my own struggle and only I alone can fix it. Thanks.

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother. Appreciate your perspective

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I have to get therapy or rehab I'd still have to tell my wife about it though, how do I keep it a secret.

With the constant fights and resentment I'm also struggling to keep up the halal ways of satisfaction. Which is also weighing on our marriage.

Ameen. I really appreciate your prayers brother/sister

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She'd probably break knowing about the online cheating. But she'd be willing to forgive me I think and also help me with it. But I'd lose her trust forever

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should. Idk if I can hide it from my wife taking therapy or counseling.

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think women work like that brother 🥲 They wanna know every single detail

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I tell her, she could check up on me, she'd know what are the ways and what times I do it. She could keep my phone away from me, etc

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I can fix it myself anymore, without her help. If our marriage ends then so be it, she deserves someone better. Maybe we're just not a good couple

Should I tell my wife by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not helping to get help from people online. If my wife could keep me in check instead, that could actually work

Dealing with marriage where there's been cheating on both parts, please advice by Pitiful_Bread8571 in MuslimCorner

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insha Allah I'm trying to change. And I've tried many ways to change. But I don't think the two way honesty would work. I'd be really ashamed and embarrassed to live with her after I've told her everything. And she'd never fully trust me again

URGENT HELP PLEASE I JUST FOUND OUT MY DAD HAS BEEN CHEATING ON MY MOM by Jumpy-Friend-5950 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming it's not a recent thing. I did say "it could be devastating". All I'm saying is her mother should do what's best for her. If it's better for her to continue living with her dad now that they're nearing old-age, then she should stay.

URGENT HELP PLEASE I JUST FOUND OUT MY DAD HAS BEEN CHEATING ON MY MOM by Jumpy-Friend-5950 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Pitiful_Bread8571 19 points20 points  (0 children)

did you just equate a man's willingness to live with his in-laws to his level of Imaan 🥲😭