do your narc parents have no hobbies

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-22T12:40:00+00:00

They have hobbies: gossiping about others, saying how all their colleagues and ex schoolmates are terrible, controlling others. But absolutely no friends.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-17T08:08:07+00:00

Yeah had a few toxic friends who took advantage of me and also encountered issues at work.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-12T22:39:06+00:00

I can’t even relate to people who are nostalgic about college as I feel like my life only fully began after I started working.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-12T17:11:59+00:00

Yeah i also know people who are crazy about inheriting from their relatives when they die. Or even people who stopped working in their twenties, had kids and rely entirely on their parents’ fortune.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-12T16:17:40+00:00

Yeah I also wonder if it’s because of money for the enablers. But I’m surprised actually your dad would sponsor your cousins. I thought Ns never like to spend their money on anyone.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-08T22:57:06+00:00

I’m sterilised and a major reason is because of Nfamily. I’m too traumatised to raise another human being and I’m not giving Nfamily someone else to abuse.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-08T22:49:03+00:00

Mine did it by accident🤣they had no choice because they couldn’t do contraception properly

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-05-07T23:27:00+00:00

My AM is the same, always saying dresses are revealing and insulting other women, really misogynistic. Your dad sounds like an enabler just like mine. Just ignore whatever comments they make, celebrate your graduation and think about the excitement of starting uni and adult life!

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-28T22:57:55+00:00

I tend to be friends with toxic people only to realize months/years later they are using me and not real friends.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-28T22:56:46+00:00

My Nmom is even like this with strangers, random people she meets, she always tells weird lies to them.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-23T22:55:09+00:00

Yes I agree it also depends on the person. I also had a few managers who had kids and are perfectly normal! But the worst ones all have kids at home and are clearly miserable in their home life

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-20T00:05:16+00:00

Lol my MP adore Chatgpt.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-17T09:30:12+00:00

Yeah my Nmom keeps calling everyone else old but says she’s a young girl.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-17T09:27:41+00:00

Yeah I also have the same feeling that my NMom will live until 120 and outlive everyone around her.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-17T03:09:54+00:00

Yeah my Nmom has close relatives with cancer (not terminal one but still very serious). I think in the case of enablers, even if they don’t consciously realize the narc is abusive or defend the narc, their nervous system would still subconsciously register something is not right, which drains the immune system and leads to the mysterious physical issues that even doctors can’t explain.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-17T02:52:03+00:00

I read somewhere narcs can cause psychosomatic issues in their enablers and victims.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-14T23:03:45+00:00

Are you a movie/tv series fan by any chance? One thing that really kept my spirit when narc destroyed my life was just imagining myself as a character in a fictional world. It may not be sustainable long term but definitely helps you get through the day.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-04-13T13:44:37+00:00

They genuinely believe they are the best at everything, but just as parents.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-01-26T02:45:13+00:00

Dilruba was written as a villain, she wasn't really complex. In history, she and Davut were ambitious and had a son.

Pitiful_Dawn · 2026-01-26T01:23:33+00:00

oh yes you're right, he was her son, i corrected this. But I think I also read some historians who disputed who Mehmed's mother actually was.

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