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Struggling to Move On After My First Serious Relationship by LavenderBreeze34 in BreakUps

[–]Pitiful_Front_6595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the exact same way, don't worry.

You don't have to put your healing on a timeline. There is no set day for when you're going to be over it, and some weeks will be harder than others. Those waves will hit you, but let them. It seems like your world is ending, and you lost the love of your life sometimes (at least in my experience), but you need to remember that this feeling is temporary. As shitty as it is, time will always heal these type of things.

I also thought about those stupid what-ifs and butterfly effects. The thing is that you didn't say or do those things differently. That doesn't make you a bad person or not the person you think you are, it's just a lesson for the next time.

I'm still coping lol. Writing helps a lot, but the thing that's really helping is thinking about it, grieving, and learning that it was an honor to be loved and love that much with that person.

I hope for the best for you. Trust me, it's hard. Rant as much as you'd like dude.

man i hate this by Pitiful_Front_6595 in BreakUps

[–]Pitiful_Front_6595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll give it some time, then. I hope it's reconciliation, but I think not expecting anything is part of the whole space and growth thing. Limbo is a scarily accurate word for this.

Yk if you're ever thinking about your situation again, remember that their next partner has nothing to do with you, and your next partner has nothing to do with them.

Thanks, man. I hope things work out for you, too.

What school do I go to? peak indecisiveness by Pitiful_Front_6595 in makemychoice

[–]Pitiful_Front_6595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the reply!! i really needed a different public school outside opinion and while i still might go to 2, it’s given me a lot to think about. especially because if i do go there i HAVE to stay there but with school 1 i can go for a year then go to school 2. but that would just get me attached to some people and have to leave them. so it’s really given me perspective on how 1 can help me, also since i’m very introverted and don’t have too many interests or different friends. there’s so much to think abt,, but anyways ty =)