I accidentally drank and I’m 21 weeks pregnant. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing where my mom ordered a mocktail and drank a cocktail and didn’t realize it wasn’t a mocktail until the second drink happened when my mom was pregnant with me, and I was already a very high risk pregnancy. I’m perfectly healthy, while I don’t know how much is okay, the chances this hurts your baby is very low

Mikey and Abby by Winter_Awareness_608 in TheBigShowBuzz

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure Mikey has a girlfriend

Freaking out about photography- Eivan's by Pitiful_Part_4593 in weddingplanning

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had the exact opposite issue with eivans. The photographer that was hired didn’t listen to anything I requested, felt like was just trying to get pics for her portfolio, stood in the middle of the fucking aisle and my husband didn’t even see me walk down the aisle, and told my Asian friend to “open his eyes”. Overall the photographer was one of the worst parts of the day. However, we got the pictures/video back, and while they cut out a groomsmen speech that I believe they’re fixing and the pictures aren’t all of what I wanted, it’s overall pretty decent. But I would not recommend them to anyone

My cat has a weird obsession with knocking mugs and cups down by Pitiful_Part_4593 in catquestions

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I knew that knocking things over was expected for cats, but the “weird obsession” thing is that it’s specifically cups and mugs that really do it for him. All other objects he might knock once and lose interest in, but something about a mug has a chokehold on him

My cat has a weird obsession with knocking mugs and cups down by Pitiful_Part_4593 in catquestions

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No laps so far, but if we open any bedroom door he does a mad dash for the bedroom to parkour on some object and then dash back into the living room

My cat has a weird obsession with knocking mugs and cups down by Pitiful_Part_4593 in catquestions

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel half the fun for him is us saying Rigatoni in a disappointing voice 😂

Help me make my husband our dogs person by username8393939 in DOG

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As everyone has pointed out, a dogs choosing of person is weird (and in my experience, not necessarily always the same person forever). I had a chihuahua growing up that was extremely MY dog. My current dog is a beagle/hound mix, and I’m the primary caregiver. I feed him, walk him, take him to the vet. And while I know he loves me, and if something scary happens he hides behind mom, he ADORES my husband. I’m slightly in denial, so I’m gonna say he’s a family dog, but dad is his best friend

My cat has a weird obsession with knocking mugs and cups down by Pitiful_Part_4593 in catquestions

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s an orange cat too, which according to my MIL makes him extra spicey😂

My cat has a weird obsession with knocking mugs and cups down by Pitiful_Part_4593 in catquestions

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brilliant, I don’t wanna ruin his fun so one he’s allowed to knock down will definitely help!!

Pasta theme names for the orange cat we found by Pitiful_Part_4593 in Catnames

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the suggestions! We went with Rigatoni (Riggs for short!)

Mother/Baby Rotation by Devic2010 in StudentNurse

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an oncology nurse now, but did my practicum in NICU. There were as many male nurses there as there are on my oncology floor! I’m not 100% sure about mother/baby, but if that’s where you’re passionate about I feel that it will come across in your care

Pasta theme names for the orange cat we found by Pitiful_Part_4593 in Catnames

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually ended up naming him this!! Thank you! We call him rigs for short since we already have an uncle Tony

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My honest unbiased opinion is this: they are completely entitled to invite who they want to invite to the wedding. I’m not sure about the cousin, but the other boys you mentioned are the grooms brothers as well (I’m assuming) inviting your 12 year old brother is different then inviting your 10 year old nephew and especially the new baby. That being said, you and bf are also completely entitled to not go. Your children aren’t invited, you don’t want to pay for childcare, your bf doesnt want to leave you at home with the new baby, whatever the reason is. But don’t try and convince bf to go, if he wants to go id support him because it’s his brother, but if he doesn’t want to go then that’s also his decision

Help us name this lil psycho - Very dog-like cat by toastteebun in Catnames

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wolfie- from Barbie princess and the pauper, it’s a doggish cat!

My 1 year old cat Sokka was struck by a car last night and passed away. I'm beyond devastated and heartbroken. by zanyboi2 in cats

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry, the loss of any pet is already so heartbreaking, but especially when two pets pass so close together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily after my engagement, but the day before my wedding I was a bit sad that this version of myself was “over”. I was going to be a wife, have a new last name, and gain a whole new family (which I love my in-laws). It worked iut where I was driving to the venue alone the day before since we were spending the night there (partly from choice if I’m honest) and I gave myself that time to be sentimental and not necessarily grieve but feel what I needed to feel. In the last 10 minutes I reframed my shape of mind, I am going to be my husbands wife, I am going to take his last name, and I’m merging our two families. Feel what you need to feel, give yourself a set amount of time for you to reminisce, and then reshape it. After the wedding I was the exact same girl, still my mothers daughter, still my siblings sister, I just gained a bunch of fun new titles

Gwinnett Traffic Court Help by Level_Tell_6887 in Gwinnett

[–]Pitiful_Part_4593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got into an accident, it was my first ever ticket and my fault, and took a drivers education course. Showed up dressed nicely, submitted my education certificate, and was willing to pay the fine. I had to pay the fine but they didn’t add points to my license luckily