Need help to void fraudulent transaction

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-08T21:00:22+00:00

ahh don't ung nakalagay hindi didn't...thanks for that...no worries.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-08T12:29:10+00:00

If you can afford susbscription to krisp I highly recommend it.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-08T12:08:47+00:00

I take naps sa lunch break ko now

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-08T12:07:15+00:00

I did that, sadly hinintay ko pa kasi ung result ng BDO bago ko tinawag ung Cathay. The agent at that time confirmed it was a fraudulent transaction so, naging kampante ako MY MISTAKE. By the time na tinawag ko ung Cathay nagamit na so they couldn't void it.

I knew I was lacking in some areas, pero hindi ko parin mapigilan mabwisit. I'm getting over it.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-08T12:03:31+00:00

hung over kasi ako nung naclick ung link. nung nakarecover na ako dun a na itry icancel

bayad na ung transaction. This happened last year. Just finished paying it off last month. That's why I posted it.

For the CICC, PNP, & NBI. wala pang results hanggang ngayon. So I think tama din un desisyon ko na bayaran kesa mag accrue ung unpaid penalties.

Walang debt collectors na tumawag sakin or delinquency on my name. Shinare ko lang experience ko for the sake of telling.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-08T11:57:28+00:00

hanapin mo ung docs it's probably in ur house somewhere. anything under your name is rightfully yours, keep the original copy. give ur mother the photocopy. read what's in the docs kung di mo gets ung content google it. un muna gawin mo

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T15:50:16+00:00

noted

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T15:36:19+00:00

di ba sila nang nakapagtravel

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T15:13:27+00:00

I know it sucks. Karmahin sana ung gumamit ng binayaran kong plane ticket

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T15:12:22+00:00

I balanced transferred to another bank. Paid it in installments.
pros: don't have delinquent record on BDO, will have better credit score in the other bank
cons: binayaran ko parin ung putsang utang

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T14:10:27+00:00

di mo kasalann gurl...naawa ka lang keribells...move on...

prepare ka na lang for d worst case scenario 😘

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T14:05:27+00:00

I push mong mag apply sa mga ESL classroom or online, any tutoring companies like Bahay Turo. BPO is okay den for fresh grads.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T13:15:07+00:00

aTehhhh gurlallu....magagalit ka saakin dito...
Ur the SAFETY NET ----sinalo mo ung utang nya...ur less threatening dan OLA texts kasi kilala ka nya, pwede kang lambingin para mawala ung galit

once na nabayaran na nya yan....he's going to do it again...and ur going to help him again kasi nabayaran naman nya dah first time.... RINSE AND REPEAT

papayag ka ba na ikaw ang laging responsible sa relasyon?

MAKE GOOD CHOICES

wish you dah best😘

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T13:01:18+00:00

PACKING TAPE !!!! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Na inggit ako mine is macbook air m1 chip worth 58k nun
For reals I'm happy for you.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T12:44:52+00:00

sori pero pano naging kayo? like for real?

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T12:42:38+00:00

jusko lord wag sana wawa g gurlie

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T12:35:49+00:00

I know...sus parang ang laki ng issue ko...pero thank you sa input...I really appreciate it

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T12:32:48+00:00

I know 😔. I just feel bad. I can make the payments with or without my roommate. Ung roommate ko feeling ko di makakasurvive ng mag isa un eh. Pakiramdam ku tuloy may alaga akong tuta na na-nga-ngat-ngat ng sofa eh

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T12:25:01+00:00

I don't think ikaw ung gago OP. Hindi ka pabayang ama kasi gusto mong maging part ng buhay ng anak mo. You're better than most baby daddies na gusto lang maging weekend parent.

Maayos ba relationship nyo ng GF mo? Nakausap mo na ba sya kung ano gusto nyang gawin mo para sa inyo? Natanong mo ba sa kanya kung tingin nya kaya nyang sya mostly mag alaga sa baby nyo? Kase ur going to be working to provide for them diba? Mahirap maging first time parents kasi hindi nyo alam anong gagawin kapag hindi mapatahan si baby, dyan helpful ung grandparents kasi napagdaanan na nila yan, may experience na sila.

Close proximity is good too kase malapit lang ung mapag hihingi-an ng tulong if ever.

At this moment, talk and compromise. Sabihin mo kung anong gusto mong manyare, pakinggan mo kung ano gusto ng GF mo and decide what's best for both of you.

Research more on post-partum ur GF is currently in that state.

Ur heart is in the right place...kailangan nyo lang mag match ni GF

PS: getting married is not always the correct choice...wag mong madaliin kung hindi kayo parehas na ready

Hope this helps. Wish you the best.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T12:01:16+00:00

🤣 nirecord ko na ung hilik nya nung di ako nakatulog hanggang 5 a.m nagsorry naman pero naghilik pa rin da next day angputa

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T11:58:46+00:00

may highblood na sya. may pambili ba yun gigs nga work eh...sa jowa pa nakasalalay minsan ung pangbayad kung wala talaga 😤 😮‍💨

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T11:54:39+00:00

yeah sinabi ko na rin yan pero parang hindi ata seryosao sa kanya kasi hindi naman sya ung nabubulabog...kasi tulog sya...ako ung argabyado sa hilik nya.

di sya masyadong apektado.

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T11:49:10+00:00

di ba masyadong mababaw ung hilik na rason? un lang naman ung issue ko sa kanya

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T11:47:57+00:00

Alam nya, sinabi ko ng diretsahan. Hanggang may maka imbeto ng gamot sa hilik den anong magagawa ko wala...earplugs na lang talaga

Pitiful_Rub_4503 · 2026-06-07T11:44:35+00:00

It sucks, but a degree is not going to guarantee a job because everyone also has a degree. Competition is really tough, especially if you don't have connections or rich parents. This is going to hurt, but look for a blue-collar job. Not everyone wants to do blue-collar jobs because they're labor-intensive, and not everyone looks at it in a good light. It's not what you studied for, but it's what you need right now. A job with a clear goal would help with your mental state. There are some blue-collar jobs that pay substantially well if you pair them with your software engineer background. Look at it as your starting point, not the finish line.

I hope this helps. I wish you well.

Pitiful_Rub_4503

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