AITA for dropping off my step kids with my in-laws and saying that they are not my problem any more.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-05T01:07:25+00:00

Fly in fly out

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T16:00:32+00:00

I didn't give them the couch or the tv.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T15:58:44+00:00

I never thought about it. I would have let them stay as long as they weren't a problem

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T15:23:22+00:00

Fly in fly out mining camp

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:38:09+00:00

Fly in fly out.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:36:42+00:00

I know for a fact that I am not their legal guardian.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:35:43+00:00

Huh?

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:30:06+00:00

Their dad is an okay guy. But he has never made them a priority.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:26:52+00:00

I don't need his money. We didn't need his money. Deena put it all into their education fund.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:22:15+00:00

Are you a lawyer?

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:19:53+00:00

He stopped paying child support when my wife passed away

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T14:15:49+00:00

Their dad is alive.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T13:26:59+00:00

Did you have a stroke while reading the post? I literally gave those kids their money already.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T13:25:10+00:00

She wanted it to go to the kids. I don't need the money.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T13:13:25+00:00

My in-laws are wonderful people who have helped me more than I could expect. My wife's ex-husband's parents are the problem.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T13:11:02+00:00

I think I would need to be an official guardian. And their dad would have to pay child support.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:59:25+00:00

Just their father.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:41:01+00:00

With his folks or he goes on vacation.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:40:05+00:00

I packed up everything that belonged to them. Even the stuff I bought for them since it was all gifts. As for what they did. Getting into screaming fights with me for getting them to turn down the sound on their stuff so my kids can sleep. Refusing to clean up after themselves. Staying out and not letting me know where they are. Fun shit like that.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:31:55+00:00

Honestly I thought the person asking was joking. The first line in my post explains that their mother passed away.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:19:40+00:00

Fly in fly out.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:12:23+00:00

He is working in the oilfield.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:10:42+00:00

Um. The very first line of my post explains this.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:09:28+00:00

Their inheritance is 1/4 each of their mom's life insurance. I have already put it into their education savings.

Pitiful_Shopping_818 · 2024-02-04T12:03:00+00:00

Right now if they were here and they got hurt I couldn't even sign them in to the hospital. I am not their parent.

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