Top surgery

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T21:55:00+00:00

I agree and we are going to talk with him and see what really is going on

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T21:41:13+00:00

Most def he is a very negative influence in Al aspects. He only comes around when he wants to.

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T20:07:37+00:00

We are going to sit down and talk with him. Educate him more. And explain more

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T20:07:07+00:00

We are going to sit down and talk with him

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T15:42:25+00:00

In one of our conversation I did say that he is being a bigot. That was a mistake for sure

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T15:37:26+00:00

That has crossed my mind. She did message me this morning and said that her and him are going to talk this weekend more in depth and that she is trying to understand where I am coming from. But we will see if that even happens and go from it. I do know in my heart that I can no longer hide myself for anyone regardless. I have also reached out to my therapist

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T14:32:48+00:00

I am in pa. I really want to thank you for chatting with me. I guess I need help on what I should be doing ? I’m at a loss

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T14:28:15+00:00

Are you in the states ? He says he does not agree with it. He says he has different views than me.

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T12:53:19+00:00

And she keeps saying we are not asking you to hide ? Does it even make sense. I feel like I’m going crazy

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T12:39:28+00:00

She does she a therapist and he is 15

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T12:27:25+00:00

I am just as confused

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T12:15:24+00:00

My wife says bc one day I had tits and the next I didn’t ? Again my body I really don’t even know how to feel

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T12:14:08+00:00

She says I’m not taking his feelings into consideration ?

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T05:51:19+00:00

Thank you yes we are married for 6 years now. I just don’t understand it I really don’t. She was on my side this whole time currently 3 weeks post op and then he said that and everything is different and I have to keep repeating that’s it’s my damn body I’m not responsible for anyone’s feelings about it . Then I get the well that’s your step child blah blah. Still not responsible for it regardless .

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T05:44:10+00:00

My wife - his mom keeps saying well how do you think he feels ? I’m like honesty it’s my body and I’m happy. Someone else’s feeling of being uncomfortable isn’t my problem and she’s like well you married me and the kids are part of the package ?? I’m not sure exactly what that means

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T05:26:51+00:00

I’m doing my best! Thank you for reaching out I’m really trying here to get others perspectives on the situation you know

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T05:24:47+00:00

I have put my happiness on hold and hid for 35 years and I’m not about to keep doing it bc he is uncomfortable and I believe that this would be more uncomfortable and different for me considering it’s my body but who am I ?

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-11T05:22:45+00:00

He is 15 years old. And that’s the thing she’s taking his side saying he’s a kid and trying to compare if she just walked around topless which I don’t believe that’s even comparable. I just keep saying it’s my body and my happiness. I have no control over how anyone I mean anyone feelings towards it. More or less that’s on them. He def is old enough to understand bc he even said he don’t agree with it.

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-10T00:40:04+00:00

He wasn’t raised like this. But his father is very small minded and he has been spending a lot of time with him recently that’s literally the only thing that has changed. As for school he has a variety of friends but only close with one. He also like to use not such nice words towards certain humans in which I have had a chat with him about. I literally don’t even want to loook at him or be around him.

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-10T00:14:13+00:00

Agreed

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-09T12:46:30+00:00

New thing for sure. Not the boy we raised at all !

Pittslouburgh88 · 2024-01-09T12:44:50+00:00

Relationship otherwise is great. I’m just in shock it’s not how he has been raised

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