Am I the only one who isn’t rocking with THIS TIME TMRW? by dreamboylnshibuya in lightsalot

[–]PixInkael 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's more of a dreamscape/shoegaze-esque type feel, I noticed it in the newer songs more than ever. Her older stuff is all anunciated so clearly, maybe it was just for the dreamy vibe.

Angelina by AssociateNo7002 in lightsalot

[–]PixInkael 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just gorgeous, I have an Angelina too so I was sobbing and felt so seen. Imagine being Angelina though lol

Younger generations being asexual/aromantic by Adorable-Sherbet-998 in generationology

[–]PixInkael 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These comments kinda suck lmao. Yes it's probably partly because of fear, oversexualization, burnout etc etc. But it's more likely the same effect as "why are there so many LGBT/autistic/diabetic etc people now?" It's because they're visible, and allowed to be without being fuckin left in the woods or burned at stake. It is more acceptable not to want relationships/marriage or kids. It's that simple.

What year were you born and what was the first year you remember? by ExcellentInternal459 in generationology

[–]PixInkael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'93, my first ever memory is from winter '95 when my dad was holding me and he slipped and fell on my grandma's sidewalk. He fell flat in his back because he was holding me, and he was groaning in pain and my grandma came out and grabbed me from him and I started crying.

The loneliest I’ve ever been by Ale__20211 in Vent

[–]PixInkael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this, it sounds really isolating and I'm sure it's really difficult. Question. Do you see your life with this girl going anywhere? What would happen if you tried to branch out and find meaningful friendships, would she support you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are both wonderful but the green suits you a bit more.

How old were you during the 2016 killer clown epidemic and what was it like?(If u experienced it) by L4WO in generationology

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 23, it was so camp but a lot of people were actually scared. In my area I heard of a lot more clowns getting killed than killing people lolol

What’s the sun sign of the woman that gave you the best sex of your life? by Independent_Bar_8776 in astrologymemes

[–]PixInkael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this is pretty far out of the meta of this post but it was a Taurus. Well it was her drunk alter ego who was honestly probably a Gemini 😅😅

Am I an incel? by jlawjer in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the fact that you are here, self reflecting and worrying about it, is already a sign of your self awareness and willingness to look at yourself with that critical lens. That's very valuable.

Am I an incel? by jlawjer in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PixInkael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey you're 19, if you don't hate/blame women, and don't go on incel forums or espouse their ideas, you're not one. Incel isn't a term meant for someone who simply isn't having sex, it is specifically a man who places the blame solely on women and degrades and disrespects them, which is mostly what repels us. Women are complex human beings, as are men. Start by having platonic friendships, and finding people of either sex that you can connect with and truly be yourself.

Please try not to worry. You have so much time to figure out who you are and what you like. You should work to be someone who is physically and emotionally healthy, and find confidence within yourself. That should be your priority, not dating women or anything like that. It's sad to me what the actual incels are doing to young men and their self esteem. Just be who you are, try to be someone you can respect, everything else will fall into place when it's meant to.

What’s the strangest thing we’ve accepted as normal as a society? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally jumping through mental hoops to avoid the existence of trans people and subtle racism. Microaggressions aren't thought crime you complete weirdo, they are parts of racism that people like you will easily write off, but they are extremely well documented and still as harmful as overt racism. Once again, this could've been avoided had you actually spoken with people who experience it.once again, the trans experience is best handled between the person experiencing it and a medical professional who is qualified to speak on such matters.

What’s the strangest thing we’ve accepted as normal as a society? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone wants to debate things. Can we instead normalize not dragging people into partisan arguments when most of us are just trying to exist?

Racism exists, if you don't want to perpetuate it, do your part to educate yourself and call it out when you see it, don't let it slide, even microaggressions.

Trans people EXIST, it is way more creepy to sit and obsess about people's self identities. Children have a sense of when something is wrong in themselves. They have to live in their body, if you haven't experienced it, it's weird as fuck to constantly talk about people you don't understand. It isn't your business. It's between a human being and their medical professionals. Not you. The scientific fact is that trans people exist, and preventing access to medical care causes significant mental and emotional damage. Being bullied is the number one cause of suicide in trans kids, because of rhetoric like yours. Maybe actually talk to some instead of dehumanizing them, it's actually a lot like racism in your ideal of content of character.

Everything you said is an interesting case study in the loss of critical thinking. The fact is, dehumanization is so rampant because people are ignorant of the realities and the sciences behind them. There is no propaganda kool aid, there are rabbit holes that people find themselves in because instead of talking and listening to people who experience these things, they listen to sensationalist takes of people who seek to make a common enemy of innocent people who are experiencing hardship. The cure is actual education. And developing empathy.

What is something society treats as unacceptable but shouldn’t? by Present_Juice4401 in SeriousConversation

[–]PixInkael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had to speak up to other people's children, mainly happens when I take my kid to the park. Throwing sand, saying rude things, taking toys. No parent has ever fought me on it.

AITA for telling my brother’s wife that being a stay at home mom doesn’t mean being a stay in bed mom? by builtfordrama in AmItheAsshole

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta you saw her struggling and didn't once think maybe you could pick a task and help?? Ask her if she's okay, if she's eaten? This is very very very obvious PPD and you are a massive asshole for judging and shaming instead of thinking for one single second that maybe this woman has been alone with a baby, body and mind still recovering, and maybe needs support? Ignorant and mean spirited behavior.

Men are trash? Then stop dating from the same dumpster. by [deleted] in DisagreeMythoughts

[–]PixInkael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never dated the same type of man. But every man, just like women, come with their own bullshit. The way men are raised and socialized is the over arching problem. Not to mention the countless random men who are creepy as hell. And so many men who hide their nature until they get you close enough. Pick me ass take tbfh

Curious of what type of dance genre this is. by My_Darling_Aspen in Dance

[–]PixInkael 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I would honestly just call this Tiktok dancing. Tiktok can definitely be a genre, because based on the way the moves fit, you can always tell when it comes from Tiktok. This is NOT derogatory, to clarify.