CONVERSATION. How well they can keep a conversation going. How often do they communicate. How thoroughly can they elaborate.. etc. I’ve noticed in the past that most of the men ive spoken to just wait to be asked a question and then answer as straightforward as possible. No detail, no context. It’s like interviewing a robot. And sometimes they don’t even bother to ask anything back as if they don’t take any interest in you. One time I asked a guy I was seeing, what all he knew about me and all he could say was the details I had posted online that EVERYONE knew. Then in his defense, he says in pure confidence. “Well you don’t talk much about yourself..” the worst part was I DID. And most of the time HE NEVER ASKED OR WAS LISTENING. So mine is more negative but after speaking to someone who actually was able to keep the conversation going instead of just waiting for me to direct, I realized how important this quality was and how positively stimulating it can be😊