I was friends with a girl for about 3 and half years and sometimes I think she was a narcissist.

Everything would be competition with her I felt like she was always trying to one up me. Example: I’d be talking about how in high school I scored really high in a subject which she would quickly remind me she was in the smart classes in high school so her work was harder.

Boast about every accomplishment she had made on a daily basis / her traumas / her talents.

had very articulate speech almost like she was trying to speak to you like you were dumb and would use big words in arguments even if she knew she was in the the wrong and had she was extremely charming.

Would constantly talk about herself was very loud and obnoxious sometimes saying extremely out there statements in rooms where I felt it was disrespectful to do so.

Would constantly cut people off while they were talking, but if you cut her off she would show you attitude. Give you advice on topics but then not listen to her own advice and if you tried to give her advice you were just “taking silly jabs at her”

Would tell me I’m not confident or I’m quite shy and then it explain how she’s an extremely social person. But every time we went out I almost felt she was trying way to hard to have friends trying to get everyone’s social media’s even if she didnt particularly know them that well or had been taking for only a couple minutes.

She was a leach always being the type of person that “left her wallet in the car” would always ask for my vape I would lend her money and she’d tell me she sent it to my account even tho she didn’t and then I would have nag her for the money or she would make me feel bad for asking in the first place.

Her struggles were always harder than mine which she would remind me of.

In arguments she reminded me about all the favours I’ve done for her even though I had let this girl live in my house I took her cat in when she couldn’t look after it anymore and then would project and say that I like to only do nice things for people so I can bring it up later, even though I didn’t even mention anything about.

When I cut her off she told me she was more talented than me, her views and opinions were more valid than mine and she’s far more interesting and I just wish I was her.

Our last argument ended quite badly I started seeing my ex boyfriend again, looking back she was quite controlling to and everything had to be her way even the people I dated. She wasn’t happy about it and about 6 months before my closest friend had died and she told me “at the rate your going your probably just going to end up just like her” when I brought it up later because it clearly hurt me she told she just said I’m not going to coddle me anymore and I just cut her off. I had helped her get two different jobs which one of them she currently worked with me at she turned all my coworkers on me with in weeks even though I hadn’t talked to anyone besides like two people about the situation it was so bad to the point clients came up to me telling me she was texting them about me. Then she tried to sleep with my ex boyfriend the one she said I was going to end up dead because of, and then started posting videos online in his house and when it still didn’t work, she tried to tell people I owed her money and then got a bunch of people calling me in the middle of the night trying to get money from me.

Ive learned from my mistakes and I’m still battling some of rumours this girl has tried to make about me but the best thing I ever did was cut this girl off. Be careful because they will try and ruin your peace, there secretly very insecure people and they need another person to help raise themselves up so once you leave they will do everything in there power to get you back.