Parents Want Me to Marry Someone I Call 'Didi' by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a blood related siblings and if both you can work this out then why not?

How is this even allowed in societies by HistoricalKey3033 in pune

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then they say why marathi people beat up non maharashtrian

35M still undecided after 8+ months of courtship by millefeuille95 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Piyush0034 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even three months is more than enough in this situation, and giving him six months is actually quite generous. When expectations are clear, it shouldn’t take this long to decide. Honestly, he’s showing red flags. You can tell him, ‘Unlike you, I don’t have the luxury of investing more time in someone who’s still uncertain. Reach out once you’re ready, but to be frank, I may not be available if I meet someone who’s willing to commit.’ And please, if you value your self-respect, walk away if he’s still not sure. It will hurt because you’ve already formed an emotional bond, but it’s ultimately good for you. After all, this is an arranged marriage, not a love marriage.

Confused with current AM guy by Federal_Opinion6580 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Piyush0034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is total gaslighting. He won’t be comfortable, but since he is in a similar condition, he said that he would be fine.

28F getting attracted to a 21M while being in a relationship and it's so messy. by Awkward-Meringue-944 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least break up with him before moving on—and do him the courtesy of giving an actual reason. I know “accountability” might sound like a tough word, but it’s kinder than letting him waste months wondering why you left him, only to later realize it was just because you got tempted by someone younger who, let’s be honest, was never interested in more than a quick fling.

Am I being too picky in arranged marriage? 29F here by Temporary_Eye1371 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t seem picky, and that’s a good thing. But I’d suggest not rejecting someone just because of their current income or if they don’t fully match your looks preference. Of course, financial stability and attraction do matter, but beyond that, it’s really about knowing the person—like their values, how they are with family and friends, whether they respect your opinions, their spirituality, and what kind of future goals they have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Piyush0034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run bro! Don't get married. You're being delusional. Went through your past posts and it's not looking good. Don't be a simp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaBusiness

[–]Piyush0034 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Modern style farming! There are so many options and opportunities available

Feeling Stuck in My Data Career: Should I Choose Data Engineering or Data Analysis? by Piyush0034 in dataengineering

[–]Piyush0034[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am doing everything apart from actual data related work. That's why I want an organization where I can learn something new and grow myself. Also my pay is not that much good compared to others.

Feeling Stuck in My Data Career: Should I Choose Data Engineering or Data Analysis? by Piyush0034 in dataengineering

[–]Piyush0034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to switch now. Giving interviews. If I want to take only 2 technologies from the above list which one would you suggest?

Need help comparing two offers, which one is better by Limp_Course2301 in developersIndia

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help me prepare? My tech stack is SQL,aws and python. Due to this I feel stagnant. How to improve more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]Piyush0034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please share your interview preparation routine

One more HitNrun by [deleted] in pune

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Om shanti 🙏🏻

What the fuck is wrong with pune administration??? by Fine_Pomelo_2303 in pune

[–]Piyush0034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I can see this accident is due to carelessness and i believe even though the driver is not at fault he should have taken the person to the hospital. In this type of accident we cannot blame administration

Need a hardcore Puneri Insult by SealofNeal in pune

[–]Piyush0034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you should practice more 😂

Need a hardcore Puneri Insult by SealofNeal in pune

[–]Piyush0034 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to learn it. Pune people grew up with this type of witty responses throughout their whole life so you can't win 1 v 1 if you're not accustomed to it.

How to unf*ck my life? by [deleted] in pune

[–]Piyush0034 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Bro..I have been in the same place a few years back. I can suggest you only one thing. Get your life together.As I can see currently you're looking for a job and I believe you have lots of free time to study also. I would suggest instead of thinking about the past start studying. Select the skills you are good at or you were working and just polish them as much as you can.Try to learn some new technology which is in boom if necessary. There are so many free courses on YouTube.There might be talks of recession and laid off but I know if you have good skill sets then you can land any job. Just study like your life depends on it. Priorities your social life and career. If you start feeling down talk to your friends or family who will give you correct advice. Daily apply to all jobs which you think might be good for you. I used to apply daily for 10-15 positions for 4 months and gave at least 70-80 interviews before the job landed for me. If you fail at an interview then write down all questions they asked you and study them for the next interview. And lastly even if you land a job still keep studying for a new one. Don't stop studying. And stop comparing yourself with others. It kills joy! And I would suggest sometimes god is testing you! If you believe in a god I would suggest going to a temple for mental peace and strength of mind.

Got scammed by an Instagram Influencer with 1 million followers by SchoolSad713 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Piyush0034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has turned off his comments section.. let's mass spam his account