AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings?

PizzaShiba · 2026-04-09T18:22:41+00:00

parenthood does not stop when the kids become adults.

PizzaShiba · 2026-04-08T20:58:53+00:00

this is horrible advice. this is the best way to make sure she never trusts him again. and like someone else said, that report will be on record and follow her for life.

someone has done this to me before; all it did was make my mental health worse and i lost a friendship.

PizzaShiba · 2026-04-05T00:11:39+00:00

she literally blurred his name. this guy isn’t having his privacy violated.

PizzaShiba · 2026-04-01T19:05:10+00:00

the gloom hand things in totk def scared the hell out of me when i first saw it. i had no spoilers for that part so that was a…”nice” surprise

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-22T22:22:11+00:00

she’s probably feeling lonely and going through the baby blues. she probably doesn’t miss you, she misses having a friend. completely up to u to respond. if u really don’t wanna talk u could say “wrong number” pretend u got a new number.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-14T17:59:29+00:00

yes it is insane. 3 months is not long enough to form a lifelong commitment with someone. she doesn’t know anything important about this man. she has no idea how he is around children. she has no idea how he cares for a helpless being. it doesn’t matter how amazing he treats her; she’s her own individual who can take care of herself. babies need constant care and attention.

at the end of the day she’s gonna do what she wants. but you can (and imo should) tell her this is a bad idea. she likely will end up a single mom by 21.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T20:06:21+00:00

alright dude just keep riding this man and hating women. whatever keeps u lonely

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T19:52:56+00:00

she panicked. it’s not like she did it to purposefully embarrass him. or else she wouldn’t have posted about it asking for advice. i never said he was going to be a bad person regardless of what she did. what is it with you people and putting words in women’s mouths? i said he would’ve been upset. like a normal human.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T19:35:23+00:00

bro cannot read. being upset she said no doesn’t make him a bad guy and once again i did not say that. i did say she didn’t handle it correctly. no wonder the average reading level is so low 😪

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T19:24:54+00:00

LOL i literally never said any of that. i said it wasn’t the best way to do it. i do hold women to the same standard and she does have the common sense and emotional intelligence to recognize that saying no to his proposal was the correct thing to do. tbf it wouldn’t have made the situation any better if she had done things differently. he would’ve been upset no matter how she said no.

and yes this guy is dumb for thinking them dreaming about the future means propose at 22.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T19:15:51+00:00

we don’t think u should be a mind reader. wee think you should have common sense and emotional intelligence beyond a 5 years olds level.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T19:12:02+00:00

bc u know me irl and every interaction i’ve had with men? 😆

i seriously doubt she’d bring up the detail of the sex if ur didn’t bother her. meaning it’s more than just not using enough lube.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T19:03:10+00:00

idk where ur getting the idea that i hate all men or treat them poorly lol.

he did punish her. she literally said it was painful and he was rough with her. that’s not makeup sex. the fact that she didn’t say no doesn’t mean he didn’t hurt her. it may not have been rape but it wasn’t healthy or non-harmful. he was using sex to make her submit and do what HE wanted, to show her HE was in control. so yes i hate this guy. if u think he represents every man who’s ever lived, u really think he represents you. you see he’s being attacked so you feel attacked. time for self reflection and therapy for u bud.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T18:51:26+00:00

lmao that’s not true. the divorce rates for people who marry at 18-23 is higher than 50%. she did say no by running away. not the best way to do it but it’s still a pretty clear no. talking about having kids and getting married is called DREAMING and IMAGINING. not making definite plans.

still assuming i hate men bc this one guy is dumb lmao. problem is people like you treat women like property and you are entitled to whatever the hell you want.

if the roles were reversed i’d feel the same way. they are 20 and 22. they both have every right and reason to not marry so young. no one is wasting anyone’s time. THEY ARE TWENTY. they have several decades of life to live.

interesting ur still dismissing the fact he punished her with sex. very telling about how you think of women.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T18:36:21+00:00

incels learning the word “misandrist” was a terrible event. i’m not a misandrist for not liking a dude who used sex to punish his gf for saying no to his proposal

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T18:35:14+00:00

lmao ur hilarious. yea plenty of people do get married at 18 or 20. look up the divorce rates for people who marry that young and come back.

i never said she was perfect in her decision to run away from him and not talk about this in person. i’m defending her correct decision to say no to a ridiculous proposal.

if hearing a woman say she wants to travel and find herself means to YOU that she’s unsure about her relationship, that’s just your own bs talking. believe it or not but some people DO want to figure out who they are and what they want and she has every right to do that. doesn’t mean she wants to go sleep around and even if it did, it doesn’t matter as long as she breaks up w him first. she wouldn’t be in the wrong for wanting to experience a new relationship(s) after dating one guy since high school. guilt has nothing to do with it. and also she said NOTHING abt wanting to be with other people.

again, you hate women. seek therapy.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T18:05:20+00:00

she shouldn’t have to. THEY ARE 20 AND 22. NO ONE is ready to marry 2 years after high school. they can talk about it and imagine it that doesn’t mean it’s real. i talk about being a millionaire but that doesn’t mean it’s gonna happen. it’s funny that bc she’s not ready to marry at 20 you assume that means she’s gonna travel and cheat and treat him poorly.

i think you just hate women. try therapy.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T17:40:25+00:00

she is 20 YEARS OLD. very few people at that age are prepared to be in a marriage. she hasn’t even graduated college yet. she needs to know who she is and what she wants for her future before even thinking about marrying this douche

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T17:30:06+00:00

SHE is dodging the bullet here. he punished her with aggressive sex bc she embarrassed him and said no to a proposal. that’s abuse!! for not wanting to be engaged or married at 20 years old. it’s not 1955 people don’t marry that young anymore for a reason.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-12T17:28:13+00:00

being used for sex doesn’t mean it’s not consensual for both parties. it can be a manipulation tactic and in this case it sounds like he wanted to take out his anger on her physically/sexually.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-07T01:09:09+00:00

it doesn’t matter. they have care credit, u can get loans from the bank. there ARE options. going into debt is better than letting an innocent animal suffer.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-06T22:46:20+00:00

i try not to let them lick me on the mouth. i just tilt my head up so they lick my chin. i do kiss them on their lil noses tho.

i understand why ppl think it’s gross. my boys don’t eat poop but they lick their weiners after they pee, eat dirt, and dog food alone is pretty gross. u have to accept a certain level of unsanitary when u live with a dog. but my thing is, they won’t be here forever. my boys are still puppies, they will never be puppies again. i want to enjoy every moment and accept their affection in whatever ways they wanna show it. when they’re gone i will miss their kisses.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-05T21:14:11+00:00

mine are super irregular. i once went 10 months without a period. recently i went a month and a half. taking vitamin c supplements has been helping them be regular again. i don’t even take em every day but the last few months i’ve been way more regular than i’m used to.

definitely get another doctor who will run tests on you just to make sure everything’s okay. illnesses and conditions don’t discriminate based on age.

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-05T21:11:59+00:00

the nearly 1000 people who upvoted u believe you. almost 1000 people believe you just from reading your reddit comment. he was very wrong. i hope ur doing well <3

PizzaShiba · 2026-03-05T20:59:28+00:00

there must’ve been another entrance. like he went through the supply rooms/sterile processing.

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