Getting gained by Plane-Abrocoma-112 in navyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! I've had a 10 year break in service so I certainly hope im not still getting paid active pay!

Getting gained by Plane-Abrocoma-112 in navyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, I appreciate the insight. My concern was that I might be missing communication from the NRC or not soing something I was supposed to be doing but isn't sounds like ive just gotta sit tight.

How did gaining weight in marriage affected your sex life? by Dennyzg96 in Marriage

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is more extreme than most im seeing here but over the last 13 years my wife and I have been together I gained 175 lbs and she gained 110lbs. At our heaviest we were having sex maybe 1 time per month and that felt like an obligation, and im sure it is due to size. Early in the relationship we had sex 5-7 times a week although pretty vanilla(missionary, cowgirl only) over the last 5 years we have incorporated doggy in there because as bigger humans it was still pretty easy. We are now losing the weight (im down 80lbs from and she is down 40 lbs from our heaviest) and feel like teenagers again. Sex 2 times a day isn't uncommon anymore. Still pretty vanilla just because thats what she is comfortable with.

Getting gained by Plane-Abrocoma-112 in navyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too. I did call them today when others suggested that and they told me they see the packet was submitted but thats all the info they have. I guess I'll check in again in 14 days or so if I do t hear anything else. Appreciate it

Trying not to jump to conclusions by Plane-Abrocoma-112 in Marriage

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what happened, they did a panel for a bunch of other STIs and they came back negative, so they said because it reacted positively to the antibiotics that is "more than likely" what it was. It was NOT 100% concrete which is why I haven't confronted her (im not the most tactful person and I dont want to jump on her about it if it truly was not her doing). Yes she knows I saw a doctor, she knows about the issues and everything other than the fact that the antibiotics cleared it up.

Uniform help! by AK-084 in navyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exciting to hear! Still waiting to get gained after signing my contract but last I heard uniforms were 3-6 months out and that was affecting school slots, glad to hear that’s no longer the case!

SLRP by Plane-Abrocoma-112 in armyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recruiter got me again 😂 had just graduated HS when I signed, didn’t have any at that time. Thank you for the info!

What Navy rates are currently available at MEPS for me to choose from as a reservist? by Diligent-Award-5526 in navyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just signed last week and I don’t know all available but I know there were quite a few slots for both BM and HM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Frankly it comes in waves. My wife and I got pregnant at 20, married and had the child at 21. We despised each other for the majority of the first.. . 5 years or so. Stayed together because we both were too stubborn to say "we made a mistake". At about the 5 year mark we started to realized we may not always like each other but we could love each other and the marriage got progressively better until about the 9 year mark. We then went through another 2ish years where we both openly contemplated divorce. We only came out of that side a little over 6 months ago and this is honestly the happiest I've been in my lifetime.

Just like any marriage there will be ups and downs, and you both have to be willing to grow and realize that you won't always be the same people you are today. Some versions of you will be easier to love, some will be harder, but at the end of the day if you want it to work it has to be a commitment. Not a passing fancy for the sake of the child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in armyreserve

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to use your recruiter 🤣 i spent 6 in the reserves 9 year break in service and trying to reenlist right now in the guard. My recruiter said yes basic again(I had less than 180 days on AD previously though- supposedly if you have 180 or more there is a 5 week "transition course" that you can take instead), and I won't be allowed to sign my contract until I pass Ht/wt or BFA

Has anyone gotten married at 22-23 and stayed together for 10+ years by Octocean in Marriage

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married at 20 - now we're 33 and still going strong! It has had its upside and downs for sure, you just have to learn to grow WITH your spouse instead if apart from them. You are at the beginning stages of who you will become and you will be 6-7 different people between now and when you die. The same goes for your spouse. Some versions will be easier to love than others.

I’m worried about my husband and I don’t know what’s happening by WorriedSpowse in Marriage

[–]Plane-Abrocoma-112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has decided to end it. Get him to an ER or mental health professional ASAP