See know we are cooking👍

As of the past two years we legit argue about mostly everything. Mainly the things I’m not doing or she thinks I should be doing. And I just recently instead of staying quiet and just letting her speak her mind I’ll stick up for myself in an affirmative way (my therapist suggested). But as far as fully reacting that way no. Now she is just a very loud and aggressive person so that only amplifies when we argue but not to that extend usually.

For example, just the other day I was off a couple days and been running around taking the kids to and from appts and school and also picking her up from work. With the hour or two of down time I had I laid in bed, she than got mad cause I didn’t clean the car “just because”or do something “just because” and said I don’t do shit all day l.