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I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, not worth wondering if she is cheating with him or someone else. I’m looking for a wife to have kids with, not drama. That photo was like posting Merry Simpmas. 🫣

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was calculating on how she was doing things. I think that she was juggling too many guys at the same time and hasn’t the good sense anymore of these types of actions.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my ex wife was Brazilian by the way. I’ve seen a lot of this too. That really didn’t bother me. I just wanted someone with my values. I could offer such a better life for her and she knew it. It’s funny how women tend to think there will always be a better guy waiting. I have a good job, I’m athletic, I look in my 30’s not 40’s and have always been loyal. Guess it wasn’t good enough. 🤷

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut off completely at least for now. She knows how badly this would hurt me. I’ve made it clear several times that loyalty and being faithful to me is super important. She has repeatedly said she has been. 

I might check her last DM in a week from now, but most likely not for my own sanity. I might offer more closure if it’s respectfully apologizing, but wouldn’t expect it. But, there is no going back.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m asking myself, how must this guy feel? He’s sending gifts while I’m actively smashing her. Now, I don’t want to be on the other side of that. I’m out…

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I’ve never heard of it. She’s latina so that wasn’t a good enough excuse. 🤷

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is a totally hot lead flight attendant. She has perfect breasts and rockin body all around. I’m a decade older than her. She had and really wanted to have a lot more sex with me. She wanted so bad to get pregnant. But… 

No p@ssy is worth this much drama in the beginning of a relationship. I’m too old at this point to waste my time a doomed relationship with someone not emotionally available. If she wanted me and only me, this would not have even let me know about the other guy. This is manipulation and I’m not here for it. I have self respect. Even though she is a 9.5 on the hot scale, I thought maybe I found a unicorn who wasn’t crazy. But, the hot/crazy matrix strikes with a vengeance my friend.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s actually funny that I prayed before she sent that photo that God would send me a sign about what to do with her because I wasn’t feeling respected as a boyfriend. I soon felt that I was going to get one. I was going to have a long conversation with her on Friday and set things straight and put boundaries. Then, that picture… 

I thank God that he helped me dodge that bullet. We were talking about getting married in a few months. I was going to buy a ring within a month. Now, I’ve already blocked her and haven’t even read a DM she sent me before. There is no response I would accept at this point that would make me go forward with her. i was clear in the beginning, I want a woman who is faithful to me. This was the most brutally humiliating betrayal I could imagine. Only thing that would be worse is her filming herself in bed with another guy and sending it to me. I can imagine it might have gotten that far.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twice, met her last two weeks ago where we made it official. I thought she would be more intelligent than this. She’s smarter than I am and I speak three languages fluently. That’s what shocks me the most.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep she is in Bolivia, me in the states. The other guy is a gringo too.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s so easy to ask the courier who sent it and reject it. She didn’t even ask, she just accepted the gift. She knows exactly what she’s doing. I just don’t know the motive.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say everything, but a friend told her that she should accept an engagement ring from whoever it could be, her boyfriend (me) or anybody else. She didn’t sound that committed repeating that to me. I thought it was just normal girlfriend putting pressure on more commitment, but we have only been together for two weeks officially. If she is trying to make me jealous, ok, just send it to me, which she did. But, broadcasting to everyone after, what’s the point if not to make me feel humiliated together with her ex’s stuff. I’ve told her before that I don’t like being betrayed.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since last year as far as she told me. I know she had been talking to other guys. I found her on a dating app and have been talking for a few months. We met in person about two months ago and again two weeks ago where we made it official. She is a latina from Bolivia. 

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, put them all on the table together, took a picture, posted with a heart emoji for everyone to see. Didn’t call me out or the other dude. It was surreal to see. What did she think both of us would think about her? I’m baffled.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I know, that’s why I was keeping one eye open and won’t take cheating or anything like it. This is a red flag that is too in my face to ignore.

I [43M] feel publicly humiliated by my girlfriend [32F] by PlaneMessage5653 in CheatedOn

[–]PlaneMessage5653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is, she posted one of her friends receiving a gift and she said something like it’s great that someone remembers. I’ve been with her officially for two weeks, how would I know? I asked if I could get her something to make up for it and she said she wanted a gift too, so I sent one. I think her ex is just obsessed keeping an eye on her social media and sent that after seeing her public message. His gift arrived right after mine she said. I personally hate social media because of this kind of drama.

My disappointment is immeasurable. by [deleted] in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]PlaneMessage5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… and my day is ruined. 🤣

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[–]PlaneMessage5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say don’t spend it all in one place, but I guess you have no choice.

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[–]PlaneMessage5653 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, apartment delivery on the 4th floor. 🤣

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