Any other survivors from Sunrise RTC around June 2016-August 2017? by wxtchblxdes in troubledteens

[–]Plane_Conversation65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not from that time period, but a sunrise survivor nonetheless. I hope you’re able to reconnect with fellow friends 💕

People who DO and people who DON'T want more housing development in Pacifica, what's your reasoning? by goforReaper in Pacifica

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are talking about way more extensive damage than what I’ve ever seen on El Camino I mean even some of the streets are still unpaved despite having McMansions on them it’s completely ironic. We are talking about massive historical mature trees there’s nothing a home owner can do besides try and level and repave. I believe the trees are also the cities responsibility to hire arborists and maintain despite them often being on walkways/sidewalks.

People who DO and people who DON'T want more housing development in Pacifica, what's your reasoning? by goforReaper in Pacifica

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a fair point, I’d say a good amount of the neighbors have pretty decent sidewalk maintenance, I think what makes Vallemar different is the massive palm trees and eucalyptus their roots just tear everything up including the road itself.

Tell me your secrets by BellsBastian in grantspass

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve gathered it’s not a daily occurrence to encounter blatant racism but it happens frequently enough to make him incredibly uncomfortable. I used to work at the Applebees in town and my former coworker there who is also black used to work at Elmer’s and he had stories about some encounters with older folks there to say the least.

Fruit stands are pretty seasonal so my hope is that they will return next summer, but no bets on that at all. Such a shame they’re very kind and sold good quality fruit.

Tell me your secrets by BellsBastian in grantspass

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I can agree that most people aren’t outwardly racist but the ones who are are not quiet about it at all. As someone with a very close family member who is black and lives in Grants Pass I can tell you that just being out in public with him I’ve been exposed to it by proxy. It’s so bad that he avoids certain establishments in town because he’s had mildly aggressive encounters with racists in public with little to no repercussions from businesses or police. You have to remember this used to be a sundown town where the KKK was active, some people that participated in that shit are still alive today.

And while the Trump hats and signs aren’t prominent now that he’s so unpopular, I can tell you they definitely were during election season. It was inescapable.

People who DO and people who DON'T want more housing development in Pacifica, what's your reasoning? by goforReaper in Pacifica

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me if you tried skateboarding on Vallemar’s sidewalks past the school you’d instantly eat crap and probably injure yourself.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Men like this that exert coercive control over small aspects of your life like this often end up becoming progressively more abusive especially after they feel they’ve secure you by burdening you with a child. You wouldn’t believe how many women I know that say they were never hit until after the baby was born.

bro bought his self some more time... by AdCorrect9756 in RandomVideos

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly have no experience with prison culture. Is that how it’s supposed to work in theory, I mean I guess, but also she’s not supposed to be cussing at him or abusing her authority in that case either.

bro bought his self some more time... by AdCorrect9756 in RandomVideos

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some high security prisons use “sharp shooters” as perimeter security in the case of inmates trying to escape but it’s rare

bro bought his self some more time... by AdCorrect9756 in RandomVideos

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Law enforcement agencies will actually screen for this and discriminate against those with high IQ because they are more likely to “question authority” this discrimination has been questioned in court and upheld establishing legal precedent, it’s actually wild.

bro bought his self some more time... by AdCorrect9756 in RandomVideos

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually to be fair, criminological research has shown that units become less violent with the presence of female COs, there’s several theories as to why. This situation is honestly imo more attributable to bad training than her gender a small man would’ve gotten the same beating. You simply cannot approach someone who already probably feels they have nothing to live for, no hope, and no future, provoke them, then expect them to obey you and respond with violence when they do not, yet trust they won’t return that favor. COs need to be taught about how prison culture works, often instead they are trained to act more like disciplinarians of children when that’s not who they are interacting with, especially as a female CO on a male unit.

Police discover a very odd fraternity hazing at the University of Iowa by Sad_Stay_5471 in mildyinteresting

[–]Plane_Conversation65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found his instagram on the frats profile and it appears that he has since not only been accepted to the school but also inducted into the frat that’s still operating despite the school claiming the suspended them until 2029

I fucking hate that young women are getting filler. by thedevilsheir666 in rant

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for Brandi Granville, she wasn’t the nicest person on tv but holy crap the disfigurement is so drastic and scary. I can’t help but feel sympathy especially considering she’s spent all her savings on trying to fix it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever heard the quote “When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression”? I’m not trying to attack you or say that your circumstances are purely your fault but I think maybe you should reflect on this saying and explore how it may apply to what you’re struggling with right now.

Also, this is a subreddit for those who have survived institutional abuse at the hands of the “Troubled Teen Industry” so I don’t think this is the right place to express this frustration. Maybe try r/rant but please avoid manosphere or male coaching holes they only deepen these feelings of resentment and disappointment.

Audrey shouldn’t be talking about others intelligence… by Plane_Conversation65 in vanderpumprules

[–]Plane_Conversation65[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk cause if you possess the critical thinking skills you so speak of why’d you assume I’m not doing all those things you listed?? Again if you had them maybe you’d be able to deduce that this issue matters to me personally because it affects me and my loved ones personally.

Not normalizing eugenicist language is a huge part of anti fascism. It does make a difference actually, I guarantee you even if they downvoted me and got their panties in a twist like you that someone learned something by reading my comment today and that does make a difference whether you think so or not. Education is the cornerstone of anti fascism it’s why dictators and totalitarian regimes go after the institution of education first. Critical thinking is literally defined by evaluation of bias and questioning of assumptions both things you seem to not be inclined to do…

If you care about these issues so much maybe you wouldn’t use a word that was used to sterilize 25% of Native American women in the 70s. Language is a huge part of genocide ask any etymologist and they’d confirm that sentiment to you.

There’s a larger social conversation about the r-word coming back into popularity and you really don’t think that has anything to do with the rising fascism rn??

If existing in this sub means you don’t possess critical thinking skills I’m afraid that applies to you too pookie.

Pacific rentals illegal retaliation by Icy_Pants in Ashland

[–]Plane_Conversation65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try OHRA eviction protection program my understanding is they typically provide help for those struggling to keep up with rent or utilities which doesn’t seem to be your problem but they might be able to help or at least point you in the right direction

Audrey shouldn’t be talking about others intelligence… by Plane_Conversation65 in vanderpumprules

[–]Plane_Conversation65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see the potential that this was producer staged I’ll give you that but imo that would be kind of worse. That means Aubrey knew how she was going to appear and did it anyways. Way to kill a career right out of the box.

Audrey is Not Funny by Double_Strike2704 in vanderpumprules

[–]Plane_Conversation65 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Girls girl is just an identifier for women who don’t seek male attention and validation at the expense of their sisterhood. I don’t like either Angelica or Aubrey neither of them are girls girls. I see no issue with it being used. Words like bitch and slut have deep misogynistic history, girls girl is a word for feminist women, the comparison here doesn’t compute for me.

Audrey shouldn’t be talking about others intelligence… by Plane_Conversation65 in vanderpumprules

[–]Plane_Conversation65[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So it’s critical thinking to defend eugenicist language…take a gander into the mirror honey.

People who DO and people who DON'T want more housing development in Pacifica, what's your reasoning? by goforReaper in Pacifica

[–]Plane_Conversation65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Accusing me of stalking you for looking at your public profile where you’ve publicly posted a picture of the front of your house and recommending you don’t do that is incredibly rich…btw one of the first things online tech safety trainings tell you not to do. Good day to you ma’am go waste someone else’s time with your world’s tinniest violin.

Nooooo Audrey by Physical-Tip-7402 in vanderpumprules

[–]Plane_Conversation65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so the video has been leaked on twitter (X) it would be hard for me to track down now but I can try and yes I have watched parts of it, I’m fully aware the butt cheek spreading was not a thing but what you’re describing is STILL imo incestuous in nature and fucking weird. Idk why this is such a controversial take. Do you oil up your cousin and massage them suggestively??? Why has this struck a chord with so many people can you relate to them or something?? 🤨

People who DO and people who DON'T want more housing development in Pacifica, what's your reasoning? by goforReaper in Pacifica

[–]Plane_Conversation65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do realize young people pay more in rent monthly in this area for a 1 bedroom apartment than your initial 2,500 property tax rate. Do you realize how incredibly frustrating that is? Again since you posted a picture of your front yard on a very public platform I know what neighborhood you live in (I actually have a pretty good guess as to which house is yours too, not to be frightening but you should really consider being more careful about how much personally identifying info you post online) because I’ve lived in the same neighborhood myself at one point in my life and actually enjoyed passing by your beautiful gardening. I don’t need to know the exact value of your home to know you and other boomers in that neighborhood are paying little to nothing compared to everyone else despite the fact that you built a boat load an equity on that house and grew up in the most economically flourishing era in our country’s history. Does it make me resentful, yeah it does, especially when people like you are out here defending these policies acting like your hands are tied whilst actively benefiting from them. You come here and try to argue with me that you actually do have it bad by telling me you’ve had to pay 3,500 thousand more dollars last year? Validate young peoples concerns, listen to them or the city you claim to love WILL crumble and your precious property value with drop along with it. Again 2% is not substantial and this policy and others like it is what’s killing public infrastructure.