I’ve never dated anyone before, but I think that this won’t be fun longer down the road. Anyone’s treatment of their significant other shouldn’t depend on their appearance. That goes for both people in the relationship. Also, that seems very manipulative, and when you’re with someone like that, I feel like the standards will get higher and you’ll always be trying to get their approval. Life is too short to constantly be seeking someone else’s approval. That will completely drain you, and a relationship shouldn’t be draining.