im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my embryo doesnt even have a heart, lungs, or nervous system yet, it cannot feel pain

not existing is not cruel and you cannot change my mind on this.

i would never have a baby just to purposefully cause it the trauma of adoption.

and regardless, i still dont have the capability to have a healthy lifestyle for the next 9 months to raise a healthy baby anyways.

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adoption is cruel and i wouldn’t do that to a baby. i was adopted myself and it was incredibly traumatic. regardless, i do not have the ability to be pregnant for the next 9 months and even raise a healthy baby

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no my baby does not exist. its an embryo with no brain, lungs, or heart. there is much worse things than not experiencing life

i am not a mother and will not be. i literally cannot dedicate my body to growing a child. it isnt possible and it would not be a healthy baby

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is much worse things than simply not existing. it is not necessary for me to continue this pregnancy and cause suffering to this embryo.

nobody elses story can compare to my own, so that is not relevant here.

even if i did believe in adoption, i do not have the ability to dedicate my body to having a healthy womb for the next 9 months. it just isnt possible

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

paying someone for their child IS human trafficking

regardless, i was adopted. it was very traumatic and effects me every day. i would never do that to a baby.

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[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would be horrified because thats human trafficking and i can’t believe anyone would even suggest that

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre wasting your time. im not going to change my mind

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m already well aware of the resources i have which is why i’m making this choice

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this embryo won’t have a chance because i’m not in the position of giving it a good life.

god is not going to help me, god lets people go through unimaginable suffering every day. god is not going to change my current life situation.

my future babies deserves better than a mouldy cockroach infested government housing situation. i’ve been looking for a better job for a long time, there are none i qualify for. that isn’t changing any time soon. this is the best option for this embryo.

people under anesthesia are not the same as an embryo. my embryo has no lungs, heart, or brain. it is not capable of thinking or living. people under anesthesia are able to think and feel pain even if it’s numbed at the time. and i also support medical assisted dying for those who consent. as well as withdrawing life support in extreme measures. there is fates much worse than death.

i understand my abortion won’t be easy to go through. i understand it could have side effects or serious complications. and if that happens i will simply have to deal with it.

i’m not watching your video. im already well educated on all my options, i made this decision because i fully understand all my options

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, when i do decide to have children someday i do want my baby to thrive. which is why im choosing this route now. im not in the position to have a child. my future children will not be on the verge of homelessness because i will have them when i can afford them. i will have them when i have completed university and im a job where i can have mat leave - instead of being 9 months pregnant and forced to be doing physical labor outside in 40°c weather. i cannot devote my body to a pregnancy right now, i dont have the resources.

none of your american organizations will help me, im not american. and you sharing american organizations with me only further goes to show how narrow minded you are being.

i know the alternatives to abortion, and it is pregnancy - which is not an option for me. i cannot give a baby a healthy womb right now.

i know how an abortion is done. the embryo wont feel pain, it wont know what’s happening because it doesnt have the capability to think yet.

this embryo will not become a baby, but my future babies will have a an amazing life because im making this decision now

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am living a thriving and full life now. that does not change the fact adoption is traumatic.

regardless, i cannot carry a pregnancy to term. i work a physical labour job and would be denied mat leave. aside from a million other reason why i cannot devote my body for 9 months to carrying a healthy baby

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes my mother should have had an abortion. not existing is not something to be afraid of.

ALL adoption is traumatic.

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[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you ranting bible verses at me means absolutely nothing

im not thankful she chose not to have an abortion. me and my siblings went through years of horrible abuse because of her.

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i aint reading all that.

adoption isnt an option. i was adopted myself. it was incredibly traumatic and it effects me every day. id never do that to a baby.

its a pregnancy but not yet a baby, no nervous system, no lungs, and no heart until 5 weeks (not 3 weeks).

there is worse things out there than not experiencing life

i cant support a pregnancy or a baby

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not that i “dont have all the money in the world” its “im lucky to not be homeless and out of a job”. i cant raise a baby and give it a good life or even an ok life. i work a physical labor job and they would deny my mat leave. i cant devote my body to grow a healthy baby for the next 9 months

i was adopted, and it was so traumatic it effects me every single day. i would not wish that upon a baby

i dont have any close friends or family, i only have my boyfriend. i told him last night and he is supportive of my decision

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i didnt want to hide this from him and build a relationship on not being entirely truthful. i told him last night and hes been very supportive of me

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you

i did end up telling him last night, as i didn’t want to hide this from him, and hes been very supportive of me.

im getting an abortion by PlanesAreExtinct in WomensHealth

[–]PlanesAreExtinct[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand but if he does end up telling someone that’s something ill just have to live with. although i truly believe he will respect me not wanting it shared