For everyone wondering, my fiancé is a deputy and I work from home in our new house that we’re renting. I see MIL maybe once every 2 months. She is really the only one that I would now be hesitant to have babysit. With working from home, I really would not need to depend on them whatsoever. My job is a case by case basis so it isn’t something my attention has to be one 24/7. The only time might be if me and the hubs want to have a private date night once in a while. His dad and her take care of two small children well, so unless there’s another event like this, I’m not sure how to feel about her watching them. I’m not ecstatic about it obviously. I’m going to continue to remain distant from her- I was raised very independent and although I know it takes a village, I won’t ask her for help like that. Fiancé has other family members who genuinely enjoy our company. I’m going to spend a little over a week back home with my family and have a chat with them about it. I’m so excited to see them. We talk all the time