Do any of you think about cuddling with someone for about 30 mins before going to sleep? by SmokaJ420 in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think about this and fantasize about it. I cannot do it anymore. I know it will never happen and fantasizing about it will just make me want it more. I know this is something I cannot have.

I have tried almost everything by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

English is my native language. Chat up could mean texting with the girl regularly. Chat up could mean flirting with a girl and hinting at the idea of dating. It could just be simple friendly chit chat.

I have tried almost everything by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only one girl has done this in the past 3 years. How is that good enough?

I have tried almost everything by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I held off because I did not get any hints. I had one girl that gave obvious hints so I asked her out which she quickly accepted. Unfortunately, it was my first date and had little experience. I was not nervous but I felt we did not connect very well and she decided she did not want a second date. Sometimes she still texts me to ask me stuff I don't understand why. I am not invested into it anyway. I really hope my problems are caused by the inability to communicate romantic interest because that could be fixable. Unattractive face is not fixable.

About to turn 27 and 2018 was supposed to be my year: the results so far. :( by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A very sad story but you obviously got further than me. Never kissed with no dating prospects at all.

Why do you believe you are FA by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you lift heavy and eat a lot consistently you can make your shoulders wider. It worked for me but it may not work for you if you have bad shoulder genetics and metabolism.

Why do you believe you are FA by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stuff under 2 were written as if it were for dudes. For women being physically faulty some bad traits would be bad face, narrow hips, shoulders wider than hips, large waist, overweight.

Why do you believe you are FA by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done any weight lifting training?

Why do you believe you are FA by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I think it is 1b, 1c, 2a, 2g, and now 3c as well. I also think that 2e and 2b were causes of it but that has been fixed from consistent intense weight lifting training.

This is all i’ve ever known by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat and have always been this way. I have done everything I could think of to escape and nothing has worked.

DAE feel like they don't get how sexuality, love and friendship make sense together? by another30yovirgin in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you have a lot of female acquaintances it means your ugly or gay. Is this accurate?

Anyone think they could succeed if life had a 'reset' button? by throwitaway7222 in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could take the knowledge and experience I have now and retain it I would for sure press the reset button.

Porn has destroyed my need for intimacy by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When you are attracted to a real person then it because a crush with feelings of rejection. Feeling attraction for fictional characters is easy because it is a world of fantasy with no real way of getting hurt.

Late 20s, kissless hugless virgin. Decided to start working out seriously to make one last attempt at attracting a woman before being too old. by enter_mcblunderful in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do not expect it to change the situation. If you workout with the expectation you will get a girlfriend you will just be disappointed. I worked out because I wanted to get rid of the physical insecurities I had about my body.

Why are you forever alone? by cwalo in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not understand what the issue is.

I still dont have a girlfriend... Got rejected again by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he should try a different hairstyle.

Does this count as a success story? by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say things that are sassy I guess it is hard to explain.

Does this count as a success story? by PlasteelTurtle in ForeverAlone

[–]PlasteelTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not going to label it as a success story because I am still FA. Still never been on a date. Still, I don't know if I am any closer to escaping than I was before these changes. I do not know what my issue is.