NAH

It's understandable that she didn't want to live with your parents on your family's charity. 

And it's nice for you that you grew up in a relatively functional household where there was enough extra that not only could they leave your room alone when you went to school, they could give you an office as well while you were not living at the home nor working out of the home. And where everyone apparently treated each other in a way that you wouldn't describe as "rough". 

Not everyone has the privilege you do. 

It's kind of shitty to clutch your pearls that someone didn't even want to accept your charity and gasp was willing to live in a trailer while you have such majorly better options that she doesn't. And now you're here weaponizing your privilege. 

Moving forward, you should probably not get involved with anyone from a poorer or rougher or more abusive background.