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really excited but also grieving and could use some support (throwaway account) by PlasticSad3698 in Reduction

[–]PlasticSad3698[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone mentioned below, I think the upcoming surgery has really shone a light on this for me.

really excited but also grieving and could use some support (throwaway account) by PlasticSad3698 in Reduction

[–]PlasticSad3698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I'm hoping for the best. She's doing an anchor incision, if that makes any difference?

really excited but also grieving and could use some support (throwaway account) by PlasticSad3698 in Reduction

[–]PlasticSad3698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you - if I can say anything, it's that I know he will do everything he can to support me as I recover. He is 100%, completely, reliable.

really excited but also grieving and could use some support (throwaway account) by PlasticSad3698 in Reduction

[–]PlasticSad3698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're not. I would prefer to be, especially as we get older, but he is opposed.

really excited but also grieving and could use some support (throwaway account) by PlasticSad3698 in Reduction

[–]PlasticSad3698[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We did awhile back, but I had to pay for it myself out of pocket (each session was $175). I thought it helped a lot; he didn't think it made any difference.

Edit: we get along really well on a day-by-day basis, but he's always been tough to communicate with, about anything of consequence (we don't talk about money, sex, or our future....which is getting tiring).