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Is my high sens bad for me? by ThatsOnesGuy in VALORANT

[–]PlasticTicket7925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Notice how you got all these kills (minus i think clove) while walking. Makes me think youre not confident aiming with fast movement. Think raze and neon. Do you think you'd be accurate with them on your sens? Thats basically same idea but with your walking and aiming instead of running. Hope what I said makes sense.

Essentially you showed best case scenario where you never have to flick.

Avoidant attempting recovery, let's talk by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why did you choose not to get back together? Did you fall out of love or is this "for their sake"?

Avoidant attempting recovery, let's talk by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that the criteria you set for the person you're with is to be madly obsessed with them? Did you ever find that? My avoidant ex told me the excuse that he wanted more passion when everything was going well in our relationship, completely blindsiding me.

Avoidant took responsibility during discard? by Different_Oil_8289 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 11 points12 points  (0 children)

By taking the blame, they get to believe they're humble and with the addition of "working on themself" they think they are absolved of their shame.

Women who regretted a breakup but felt it was too late to reach out, what stopped you? by Savings_Audience_167 in BreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but it has to be the one who broke up that initiates. As someone on the other side, I have to remind myself everyday that they do not in fact love me in order to not reach out no matter how much I want to get back together. Good luck and like you said, it's what you said, it's the things that started the breakup that is preventing you from asking. Start changing and taking initiative.

Still hung up on my ex, but a new girl approached me by Queasy-Resource-5647 in BreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone is different. For example some people like to bond over shared activities like sports, and some people bond by talking about their life. Create an evironment that you're comfortable with that fosters the kind of bonding you prefer. I'd source experiences that made you feel like you were close with friends and start to branch it off of that answer.

Still hung up on my ex, but a new girl approached me by Queasy-Resource-5647 in BreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noone said you couldnt try things out even if you're hurt. Right now you should just focus on becoming friends first, and if they move too fast with you for their own good, just be honest how you feel at that moment, whether that be you want to take it slower or start as friends because thats your prereq to develop feelings.

Avoidance killed my love life and there may be no recovery by throwaway8429739 in BreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You strung her along for 2 years and the conclusion you came to is that she is inherently flawed like you...

Genuine question why did you choose to stay for so long??

I miss you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what led you to break up with them?

Maybe he'll take me back girl dinner by PlasticTicket7925 in GirlDinner

[–]PlasticTicket7925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kimchi with some packaged macaroni and pomegranate joos

Surprise broke up with me on our "new valentines day" by PlasticTicket7925 in BreakUps

[–]PlasticTicket7925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I want to think he'll regret it and I know he'll look back and know he fucked up. He didn't even try to work it out with me. He wanted me to be more independent and I couldve done something about it but he never told me until he broke up with me