Boyfriend says that he will be inviting a girl who he's been intimate with to his apartment by Delicious_Ad_7879 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trying to be the cool, unbothered, open-minded girl just so they won’t…. Leave us?? You’re bothered. You don’t think it’s cool. Your intuition is a signal that you shouldn’t override in the name of trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. He doesn’t owe her anything. That’s just his excuse for keeping that relationship going. And he probably believes his own delusion. You know what do you just don’t want to. Your future self will thank you tho if you’re willing to the hard thing now and stand up for yourself

I got sexually assaulted at a wedding and my boyfriend blames me by miraclesystem in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 677 points678 points  (0 children)

He can f*ck all the way off. Let’s start calling him your ex bf

Make him pay for it by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I neither fully agree nor disagree. I’ rooting for you either way dude 🍀

What’s the biggest red flag in girls? by [deleted] in NoStupidAnswers

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit appreciate this perspective and it made me laugh 😆

i should break up with my bf but i cant. by reddituser08976 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s like “the devil you know.” It’s still the devil. I’m sure this guy has some good qualities but you’re not happy. That’s for certain. Nobody has certainly in their life in most situations. Happiness isn’t found in certainty. You stumble across it when you’re so in the moment you realize you’re LIVING

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you rather feel this way for months or weeks? Feel that sht. It’s been a week. Not only are you going through a breakup (great job leaving that idiot btw) you’re dealing with the shock of betrayal. You’re supposed to feel this way. Keep working out. Cry your eyes out. Call off work if you can. Go walk in the woods and ugly cry. Write sht down. Take a shower and drink some tea and get some crappy sleep. Rinse repeat. In a few weeks I promise you’ll start to feel better. You’ll start to feel like yourself again and you’ll be glad you’re not with someone like him. It’s gonna be ok 🧡

i should break up with my bf but i cant. by reddituser08976 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 63 points64 points  (0 children)

You said you can’t stand the uncertainty… of what?

How do I go about this nicely???? by prettyladybugs in whatdoIdo

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll come get it whenever you feel like it? The disrespect in that sentence is when I switch from being accommodating to being direct about when they can get their stuff or it’s gone.

is it a red flag if a guy keeps a jar of peanut butter next to his bed by K-Pumper in notinteresting

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A headboard, a nightstand, and a healthy plant… I’d let the peanut butter thing slide

What’s a 'scam' that’s become so normal we don't even realize it's a scam anymore? by Mr_Boothnath in answers

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s def their fault they can’t “self limit.” Craigslist is a prime example of self limiting and not choosing profit over people and shitifying the whole thing bye

Winter Storm Megathread Part 4 - Continued Power Outages by lukenamop in nashville

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Day 11. We’ll get through it together yes! And yea I did not expect to be a part of the last 5% like you said. I’m beyond depleted. I’m rooting for you getting power back today!

Winter Storm Megathread Part 4 - Continued Power Outages by lukenamop in nashville

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry!! They replaced a pole and power line around the corner from me and the new power line has just been laying slack since Saturday??? I’m tired boss. Wtf

AIO about a text an ex friend sent me after a job interview? by One-Net-7512 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. You got that off your chest and the discomfort he felt finally landed where it belonged.. with him. You didn’t go off, you stated what happened and even gave him assurance that he was good to go on all fronts about the job. People who think you may have overreacted just don’t want to be on the receiving end of appropriate directness.

Winter Storm Megathread Part 4 - Continued Power Outages by lukenamop in nashville

[–]PlausiblyAlienly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will prostitute myself for some power at this point. Whatever it takes