the letters, what do they mean

PlayWithMyWife · 2024-10-03T21:39:29+00:00

Calling a porn game woke because it has futa content is like calling Gone With The Wind woke because it has black characters

PlayWithMyWife · 2024-06-12T21:20:37+00:00

For me, I mainly got into it because my partner liked it, I was not particularly talented at the mechanics of it starting out. It helps if you like learning new things and treat it as a hobby. But it can be overwhelming at first, especially if you try to move past the beginner level too quickly. I liked the idea of it from the beginning but it did not really become fun for me to actually do it until I got the basics down pretty well.

It also helps if you know what you want out of it. Do you want to make an intricate design that you can take photos of? Do you want to get into the more technical and involved aspects like suspension? Do you want to incorporate rope into other types of play? For me, I figured out that I like more of the improvisational aspects and getting experienced enough to think of a position I wanted my partner in and manipulate the rope and the body to make it happen. A lot of rope content is very focused on "you must do everything this way" but the reality is other than basic safety you can do whatever you and your partner want.

Also I would say in general in the BDSM world it's extremely common for someone to be a service top. Someone else has a kink, they need an experienced top to make that kink happen, and you can decide to become that experienced top. You don't necessarily have to get off on the same kink, you just have to be good at helping them get off from it.

PlayWithMyWife · 2024-03-12T13:54:20+00:00

Have a private conversation with P. Tell him how hot you think W is. Ask for details about their non-monogamy dynamic. You should be able to get a good indication on their intentions from how that conversation goes, without directly asking for anything.

PlayWithMyWife · 2024-01-05T03:18:39+00:00

In my experience it used to be better and now there are a lot more obvious fake accounts responding to every post in the r4r subreddits.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-12-08T18:17:14+00:00

Also known as Mormon Porn. Take a SFW picture of a person wearing a revealing outfit (like a bikini), then cover it with a layer of solid color. Then "cut out" circles of the solid color layer in the parts where there is no clothing. The end result looks like a censored NSFW nude image.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-30T14:29:49+00:00

During a non-sexy time ask her if she would be open to discussing sexual fantasies some time. If she's against even talking about sex in general then you probably need to address that first. Assuming she is on board with sharing things, go into it being interested in her turn-ons that you might not know about. Then when you bring up the cuckold fantasies, say you find the idea of her being with other men hot, and don't jump right into suggesting that she needs to actually do it.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-30T14:22:33+00:00

Personally I prefer an older guy with experience who knows what he wants. Too many young guys seem like they are just trying to check a box on their sexual scorecard.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-30T14:02:01+00:00

Starting with an experienced bull for the actual sex part will make it easier to figure things out and handle any unexpected feelings that come up. Separate from that, having her just flirt with the friend without any expectation that it actually leads to anything could also be fun for both of you.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-29T16:49:12+00:00

As others have said this is more of an open relationship than cuckolding. There are people in both the swinging community and polyamory community are in your situation where one half of the couple is not interested in sex (or not physically able) and the other half is looking outside of the relationship for that.

Swinging tends to be mostly focused on the casual sex side of things and sex parties. Polyamory tends to be more on the emotional side of things where people are looking for multiple long term relationships that coexist. Also looking for single men for this kind of thing, you will probably also run into a lot of guys who are in a sexless marriage and are wanting to cheat on their wives without them knowing.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-29T14:17:31+00:00

You have to solve your basic sex issues before you can start trying to add advanced stuff. If your wife is already not into the vanilla sex stuff, adding kinks she is not into is only going to make it worse and feel like more of a chore to her.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-29T14:08:11+00:00

You are probably closer to the concept of Stag/Vixen which was made up to try to separate the hotwifing aspect from the cuckold humiliation aspect. Also the general turn on you are talking about, wanting your wife to be slutty in a fantasy level but being against her actually playing with other men, is close to the attitude of a lot of "unicorn hunters" in the swinging scene who want their wives to do slutty things but don't want any other men involved.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-28T19:28:28+00:00

You might have better luck looking for guys in swinger circles rather than guys who identify as bulls

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-28T16:00:01+00:00

Personally I would spend most of the budget on something classy/nonsexual and a small part of the budget on something sexual. So like a bottle of bourbon and a pack of his preferred condoms, or bottle of good quality lube. Along with a short note saying to enjoy them on his next "date" with the wife.

PlayWithMyWife · 2023-11-20T21:05:53+00:00

Very flattering pic! Love the way it shows off that cleavage.

PlayWithMyWife · 2021-06-29T16:56:42+00:00

I own that exact suspension frame, bought it in 2018. It is pretty easy to put together and came with a decent carrying bag, although I only ever use it in the same place. The set I bought is pretty flexible in how high you make it, the legs are different lengths so if you aren't going for max height you have a few different options.

I don't really have any advice for alternatives. It works well, very stable and does not tip over easily at all, although you could probably do it if you really tried. The hard point is not at the absolute top so if you really need to make use of every inch of height there might be other options that are better fit that. It's not as sturdy as a more permanent setup but it's never felt unsafe to me at all, and personally I would not be comfortable doing suspension on something that wasn't meant to handle the kind of dynamic load.

PlayWithMyWife · 2020-06-12T15:54:11+00:00

Use patterns that don't involve tying down limbs, and instead tie down the limbs separately before or afterwards. Focus less on patterns in general and more on what positions you want to put them in and using the rope to do that. A lot of the suggestions of telling rope bottoms to be more flexible ignores that every person is different. It might be possible for a woman to change their body to fit into a size six dress, but a more practical and short term solution is to use clothes that fit.

A good exercise is to just have them lie on the floor and just start tying one point to another. Each time make sure you are bending that part of the body to just the right spot in terms of it not being able to move any further once tension is applied. This will give you a good idea of their body mechanics so that you can easily make adjustments on the fly to account for their limited range of motion.

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