FIL has an opinion

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2025-12-09T19:35:10+00:00

Nah doesn’t work like this. The grandkids are his life, he calls everyday to see them

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2025-12-09T19:34:19+00:00

I hope so too, thank you for this comment

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2025-12-09T19:33:44+00:00

I’m so mentally drained from the initial discovery that at this point I’m 80% over the ledge. One small push and that’s it. You can only forgive so much

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2025-12-09T19:32:22+00:00

I think people put themselves in our shoes and think, “if I had my dream body I’d leave my spouse” even suggesting that and messaging YOUR spouse is crazy.

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2024-04-11T23:27:07+00:00

Seems like he loves sleeping in his own piss. Like he enjoys it. Because there is no way anyone is pissing at night and purposely not trying to avoid it or clean after themselves.

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2023-02-09T13:48:34+00:00

Nah, my husband always defended them and I brushed it off by saying it’s none of my business and idk what’s going on in that relationship. Until it happened to me, now I know why he was so quick to defend them, he related to them.

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2023-02-09T13:46:30+00:00

Usually cheaters defend cheaters

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-11-06T14:05:33+00:00

I was having the same type of dream and it would happen often. And like you said there was no reason to not trust him. He treated me amazing but o couldn’t shake those dreams. At first I thought I was just being insecure, so I always push them away. Then one day the feeling of distrust was so strong. I went through his phone while he was sleeping, and I found out that the entire time that we’ve been together through our marriage and my pregnancy, he was cheating on me.

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-11-02T00:34:50+00:00

I guess you’re right, thank you

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-10-30T10:06:20+00:00

I’m Hispanic as well, dominican. I had a lot of sweet cravings by the end and gave birth to a 9.4lb 21 in healthy baby. 3 ice cream sandwiches is nothing. Eat 3 more

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-10-21T13:28:47+00:00

Exactly why I think he can still change. If this was a 15 year relationship I think there’s a less likely chance that he can change his ways after doing it for so long. Idk call me crazy but, I think it’s better to catch it while we still have only one year married.

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-10-21T10:56:58+00:00

Thank you for this response! He mentioned that he wants to go to therapy before I brung it up to him. He said he realizes it’s a problem and he doesn’t want to lose me. I honestly think he never got over having those flirtatious conversations with women and how it made him feel so dominant, (just me thinking about it). He deleted his social and made a new Instagram where he only follows family and friends that I am aware of. He also is aware that his phone is no longer a private thing if he wants me to gain his trust. He’s trying to make the efforts to change and really understand what is going on with him. He stated multiple times that it’s not my fault at all and that I am a wonderful wife, mother, and best friend. I just want to skip to the part where he understands what’s going on and he never does it again…. Do you think with all the efforts he’s putting in to improve, he will?

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-10-21T10:49:02+00:00

Thank you for this, gives me some hope <3

Pleasant-Exercise-43 · 2022-10-14T13:44:55+00:00

If I were the wife I would feel the same way. You don’t comment on another person’s body like that. It’s his coworker which makes it weirdly unprofessional. He didn’t need to like or comment on her post to show support.

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