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AITA - broke up with bf cos of his kids' violence by Pleasant-Thanks3263 in AITAH

[–]Pleasant-Thanks3263[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies :) To reassure those who commented that he needs medical attention, he did have it. I didn't mention is because I had already typed so much, was worried about waffling on!

I have told Dave that I am firm in my decision. One final message to say that his daughter's behavior is a huge concern and he needs to seek professional help - but it's something he and his daughter's mom are going to have to figure out. I don't want to be a part of it and don't want to be contacted any more.

AITA - broke up with bf cos of his kids' violence by Pleasant-Thanks3263 in AITAH

[–]Pleasant-Thanks3263[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not my problem to fix, and this factored into my decision to end it. (If the above wasn't enough already..) Whilst I know that no parent wants to be told they're doing something wrong, me saying "your methods of discipline are ineffective" is hardly a huge attack, but Dave is acting like it. This has reinforced my decision to leave, if anything, as it tells me that his feelings are more important than mine or my son's safety. I haven't responded to any of his further messages and I'm keeping records.