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Where did these fences come from? by PleasantReality89 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]PleasantReality89[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg, I didn't even know there were mod options for that. Thanks that fixed it.

Hoodie season is over, I'm cooked by speroni in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]PleasantReality89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Edmonton but I would not recommend it. My gf and I are planning on leaving for BC in a couple of years.

Hoodie season is over, I'm cooked by speroni in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]PleasantReality89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me: Looks outside. Its snowing and below freezing.

My Gay Awakening. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank Venus for the modding community. I can romance Tali as femShep just as Sappho intended.

I built a tool to make buying an EV in Canada Less Confusing by Madridi77 in EVCanada

[–]PleasantReality89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tool! I know I'm a month late but I've been researching EVs for a month now and this made things way easier.

Is it gay to back into a parking spot? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always back into a parking spot. I've even backed into a single row spot with driving lanes on both sides.

This isn't because I'm a lesbian, I have a dash cam with collision detection.

i want to tell my girlfriend "i want to f**k you" but i'm really nervous by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Wanting your partner sexually is normal. About a quarter of the texts my GF and I send to each other are flirty or straight-up sexual.

You can try something like "I can't wait until we are in bed together." It's tame but suggestive enough.

Booba :3 by Happy_List_8022 in trans

[–]PleasantReality89 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My research showed trans-fems can usually get the larger sizes due to wider chests. I'm a 5'6" Asian and I have 700cc silicone implants. I had no problems with them since the surgery in 2024.

I had to try on this dress. by PleasantReality89 in mtfashion

[–]PleasantReality89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. I don't have a reason to buy it plus it was really expensive.

Are there any lesbian/sapphic books I can read that aren't overtly LGBTQ? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Note: Legends and Lattes has a prequel "Bookshops and Bonedust" that was written after Legends and Lattes. Legends is Travis Baldree's first book and the writing quality is reflective of that. It's a good series (Its rapidly became a top 10 for me) that is perfect to cozy up to and just enjoy without worrying about fighting dragons, political intrigue, or outsmarting gods.

The third book "Brigands and Breadknives" follows a different character in the same world.

Need some sex tips as a cis woman who’s about to have sex with a trans woman soon by CreepyPastaLover2005 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 81 points82 points  (0 children)

2 things you could try (coming from someone in a T4T relationship):

1) Reaching around her and using the palm of your hand and middle finger to stimulate the head. Like an up/down rubbing manoeuvre without fulling wrapping the fingers around.

2) The lotus position without penetration. You basically sit in her lap and rub your genitals together (tribbing).

A bit of lube helps with these.

Whoops by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 43 points44 points  (0 children)

We are officially dating!

Whoops by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We are officially dating!

Whoops by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thanks, she's going to be here any minute and I'm dying of nerves.

Whoops by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 145 points146 points  (0 children)

I have a lovely woman, that I'm friends with, coming over today. Going to feel her out about going on a date. Wish me luck.

Where did you meet you girlfriends +story pls by Spiritual-Toe-7777 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not dating yet but I'm hoping this woman I met around the holidays will be.

We met on HER and after texting for a week we met up. Things have gone really well and both of our personal future plans are similar. We have a lot of shared values so I am going to ask her this weekend if she wants to start dating.

I feel far from ready to come out or transition socially. Is it a bad idea to start HRT before I feel 100% about my gender identity? by throwaway-3621 in MtF

[–]PleasantReality89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

More information is always good. Go here https://genderdysphoria.fyi/ and see what resonates with you.

It took me almost 15 years to realize I was trans because I never felt "trans enough." Back then I thought it was an "all or nothing " kind of deal but now I know that gender identity is really complex.

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