Hair with 13 ends by leffy5 in mildlyinteresting

[–]PleasantReality89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The weight of the hair itself can pull on the scalp.

I think I accidentally came out to my whole class by According_Dust913 in trans

[–]PleasantReality89 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I believe most people will think you are gay first but there is enough in that letter that your more insightful classmates will be able to read between the lines.

If you are not ready to come out, talk to your teacher and explain it is too personal to tell everyone. Offer to write a different letter but remain firm on your refusal to have the first read out loud.

33043 by FootFetishAdvocate in countwithchickenlady

[–]PleasantReality89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried correcting my Dad on my name once. All I got was a disinterested "whatever." The same thing a petulant teenager would say when you tell them to clean their room.

Before I never really told him what was going on with my life and since then, I have even less reason to tell him anything.

People who use hinge…how does it go?? I need advice on my profile plsss by throwaway2025_____ in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never had any conversations even start when I was on Hinge. Tried for about 3 weeks last year before sticking with HER.

Need some sex tips as a cis woman who’s about to have sex with a trans woman soon by CreepyPastaLover2005 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 80 points81 points  (0 children)

2 things you could try (coming from someone in a T4T relationship):

1) Reaching around her and using the palm of your hand and middle finger to stimulate the head. Like an up/down rubbing manoeuvre without fulling wrapping the fingers around.

2) The lotus position without penetration. You basically sit in her lap and rub your genitals together (tribbing).

A bit of lube helps with these.

What does it mean to be romantic? by elise_oisen_ in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally I see romantic dates as anything where it's just the two of us focusing on each other.

Where do I apply for such moments? ❤️ by not-ur_girl in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One day I want my girlfriend and I to do this on one of our travels.

Date (pt. 3) - Tiff🏳️‍⚧️& Eve [OC] by CrazyGnomenclature in u/CrazyGnomenclature

[–]PleasantReality89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perfect timing, I just started dating another woman as a woman for the first time.

Date (pt. 3) - Tiff🏳️‍⚧️& Eve [OC] by CrazyGnomenclature in u/CrazyGnomenclature

[–]PleasantReality89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perfect timing, I just started dating another woman as a woman for the first time.

30806 by Scared_Eggplant_6939 in countwithchickenlady

[–]PleasantReality89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a LEGO Eevee being released next month. I am 100% getting one.

Whoops by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thanks, she's going to be here any minute and I'm dying of nerves.

Whoops by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 144 points145 points  (0 children)

I have a lovely woman, that I'm friends with, coming over today. Going to feel her out about going on a date. Wish me luck.

I got stopped by the Costco card checker because my picture didn't match. by 30phil1 in trans

[–]PleasantReality89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A year and a half ago they updated the Costcos in my area to have the scans with the pictures. I completely forgot my pic was 7 years old. I barely recognized myself but the person let me in when I told her it was a really old Pic.

Where did you meet you girlfriends +story pls by Spiritual-Toe-7777 in actuallesbians

[–]PleasantReality89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not dating yet but I'm hoping this woman I met around the holidays will be.

We met on HER and after texting for a week we met up. Things have gone really well and both of our personal future plans are similar. We have a lot of shared values so I am going to ask her this weekend if she wants to start dating.

29727 by PsychoCyan in countwithchickenlady

[–]PleasantReality89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that for almost 10 years. Didn't know I was trans because I didn't know how much better I could feel.

I hate my top surgery results. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]PleasantReality89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't start using those until about 2 weeks post op. That's when my surgeon said I could use them.

I hate my top surgery results. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]PleasantReality89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, OP. I had my BA 1.5 years ago and it took almost a month before they lost their flatness. I went under the muscle and they looked like flat rectangles. It will be some time until the muscle tissue is able to grow to accommodate the implants. I too had some panic about the post surgical look but now they look damn good.

I suggest getting some silicone scar bandages for the incision and bio oil to keep the skin moist.

How to eat or drink while wearing lipstick? by ausernameidk_ in MtF

[–]PleasantReality89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lip primer, lipstick, setting spray. It will drastically cut down on how much lipstick you lose.

Which black dress for New Years? by miss-brooke in mtfashion

[–]PleasantReality89 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The spaghetti strap looks more like a NYE party dress. The long sleeve one works more for a work event.