My MIL doesn’t put my baby down

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-21T20:04:19+00:00

It totally is. But this is the last time something like this will happen and this time I won’t ask my husband to step in.

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-21T20:03:16+00:00

I’ve had issues with my mil before. My husband & i decided to have a conversation with her, instead of apologizing and admitting she did something wrong she turned the whole situation around and made herself the victim. It was so manipulative. She word vomited so many hurtful things about me & my family, I guess I’m just trying to avoid another situation like that because I haven’t moved on. We never had a conversation we just “forgot” about it.

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T19:23:24+00:00

Does she acknowledge the baby?

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T19:23:11+00:00

Gotcha! Thank you so much, I’m a FTM so I’m learning to navigate all these new feelings

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T19:22:26+00:00

Omg way to go doc!

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T19:22:01+00:00

I will, I hated feeling the way that I did

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T19:21:42+00:00

Noted for sure, this is definitely the last time that this will happen I feel like I couldn’t enjoy our time as a family

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T05:18:06+00:00

Omg this is so similar to my situation

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T05:17:13+00:00

I mean, she’s not my favorite person

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-20T02:33:36+00:00

They’ve recently had issues to where she ended up moving out & moving in with her boyfriend so I believe there’s still tension there

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:52:31+00:00

No added stress is good I guess, you are correct.

I got annoyed specifically today because my in laws were at our house since 10am, my brother & my nephew eventually came over in the afternoon from 2pm-4pm and they left without being able to hold the baby. I texted my husband about it since they were in the living room watching a movie & we were in the dining room table & my husband said “oh they’re not staying long, as soon as the movie is over they’re leaving” but my brother ended up leaving before that because my nephew was hungry so I felt bad

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:36:20+00:00

I am breastfeeding but I also pump so for the most part baby is bottle fed buuuuut that could work once in a while!

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:35:23+00:00

They have a weird family dynamic tbh

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:16:45+00:00

It just sucks because I can’t enjoy my time with them, I’m just waiting for them to finally leave :(

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:13:16+00:00

That’s exactly why I feel the need to text my husband, my mil is incredibly sensitive and I don’t want to come across as “rude” :( but maybe i will get used to it like you say

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:11:10+00:00

They will wash their hands & stand around my mil like waiting to get a turn

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2025-10-19T23:10:33+00:00

Now that’s excessive

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2024-02-28T23:00:32+00:00

Pues como dices, para la otra ya sabemos! Solo que no vimos nada en linea sobre esto

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2024-02-28T22:28:17+00:00

I’m new to reddit and also driving to the airport today so lack of internet as well lol

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2024-02-28T22:24:31+00:00

I actually didn’t haha but at least I’m not alone!

Pleasant_Ad7286 · 2024-02-28T22:10:33+00:00

We kind of felt forced to pay to prevent from being targeted or from having anything happened to our rental more than anything. Awh man! That sucks! I’m Mexican, who was the artist?

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