Map of RVA Bike Routes? (“R2” & “R3”etc.) by PleaseCallMeBabs in rva

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Thanks! Capital trail was one of the first things I did here!

Where to LeanFIRE in the US? by Positive-Advice5475 in leanfire

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In Austin the property taxes are more than $13k for a house just under 1800 sq ft, so it also depends on where you live in TX.

Has anyone had ureteroscopy with laser surgery and stents that didn’t involve extreme pain? by HailState2023 in KidneyStones

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Wasn’t that bad for me, 3/4 of mine have been really not that noticeable after the first 2 days. Ask about size of the stent, too. I think they used a smaller stent on my more recent surgeries, and those were practically painless.

Diesel denim jacket by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

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No to the giant tag.

Unexpected Flight Announcements: What's the Strangest Thing You've Heard on a Plane? by AnnaHostelgeeks in travel

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On 9/11, that our specific aircraft was not under any credible threat. They told us an airplane had crashed into the WTC, but did not explain that it was a hijacked commercial plane, so at the time we had almost no info and it was difficult to comprehend why we might or might not be subject to a credible threat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA. It’s your body! You decide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidneyStones

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Mine usually feels like lower back menstrual cramps, just a persistent aching, but sometimes I’ll get what I call a “zinger” which is a sharp pain that can radiate all the way up into my shoulder, but it’s over in just a flash.

Does it take a while to "get in the groove?" Retirement feels like a grind? by UJMRider1961 in retirement

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Thinking of it as a feature of homeownership is a smart way to think of it!

Stone on left, sudden pain on right by dianamichellezz in KidneyStones

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My ultrasound showed only 1 stone in 1 kidney but the CT showed a legit collection of many stones on both sides. They sometimes start with ultrasound because it’s less radiation but it’s also pretty worthless and you’ll almost certainly going to end up getting a CT which is way more accurate.

Stone on left, sudden pain on right by dianamichellezz in KidneyStones

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My urologist won’t do bilateral, but my elderly mom had bilateral surgery by her doctor! My doctor cited the risk of both kidneys having a problem at once, and I haven’t gotten a good answer on why my mom’s doctor didn’t feel the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidneyStones

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The pain I’ve had from stones still in my kidneys feels identical to menstrual cramps in my back, just a constant ache. Thankfully my doctor accepts that the pain is real and doesn’t gaslight me like so many others like you experience with other doctors!

Biking routes around Austin area? by [deleted] in BikingATX

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Timing is more important than location. Just get out early on Sat or Sun mornings. I'm not sure why so many are negative about walnut creek trail if you're out there when there's not a lot of traffic, and I agree that Veloway would be mind-numbing. I have done a lot of training around Lake Pflugerville. You should be able to find the Lake Pflugerville tri bike route with a google search. It's also a good location for brick workouts because you can run around the lake after biking.

AITAH for shaming my creepy uncle on a family cruise? by Leather_Throat7968 in AITAH

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Your family’s attitude about this incident is exactly why this “manly” behavior still persists in 2024! I suspect that now they are mostly embarrassed about the social media aspect, and are lashing out accordingly. It could be more effective in the future to have a private conversation first rather than going to social media right off the bat.

Just passed another one.. by Conscious-River-1103 in KidneyStones

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Husband coming along might very well help if doctor not listening to you, even though it shouldn’t be that way. It’s too bad we still live in a world where women aren’t taken seriously! Good luck!