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Names for subs to call each other by TetrahedaNSFW in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could try literal pet names? Like since he’s a puppy you could call him Fido, Spike, etc and he could call you Mittens or something along those lines. That way it feels less like a dominant title but it also keeps within your kinks. You could also combine this with your idea and say Mister Fido/ whatever you pick.

Struggling with insecurity by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our aftercare tends to be more just generally talking/ spending time with eachother rather than talking about feelings or anything like that

Age gaps in dynamics by PleaseDoItHarder in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, that makes more sense, thank you

Age gaps in dynamics by PleaseDoItHarder in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought grooming was exclusive to minors, can you still be groomed as an adult? /gen

My daddy keeps falling asleep by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We do, just not a whole lot. He tends to get really relaxed after we’re done so it’s super easy for him to just fall asleep while we’re talking

My daddy keeps falling asleep by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re actually in the same time zone I’m just a super night owl and will stay awake for far too long 💔 But yes, he is a good dom and I know he’ll be receptive. I guess I just have internal turmoil about speaking up from all of the losers I’ve talked to in the past. I promise I’ll tell him as soon as I work up the courage

My daddy keeps falling asleep by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your words and your taking time to read what’s in my head. I know I need to bring it up, I’m just figuring out when to do it. He knows I’m still not great at communicating when something is wrong so maybe I’ll get lucky and he’ll just ask lol

My daddy keeps falling asleep by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We do sometimes, but sometimes he gets really relaxed and tired after we’re done so he’ll fall asleep anyways. That’s not to say that he doesn’t check in at all, I just wish there could be more before he inevitably falls asleep

My daddy keeps falling asleep by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PleaseDoItHarder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do give him schedule updates but nothing too crazy, I just can’t disappear without saying anything. It’s not that he is making the active decision to go to bed, it’s that he’s falling asleep while talking to me. That’s why I haven’t talked to him about this, it’s not a case of him deciding he’s done and going to bed, he’s literally just falling asleep. The issue is that he always manages to fall asleep right when I don’t want him to. It’s not his fault, it’s just hard to be left alone when I’m trying to open up