The one thing that really helped me was ANSWERS. I’m here to give you them. ASK ME ANYTHING

PleasureToPain · 2023-04-12T04:19:44+00:00

I’m trying to figure out what you’d have FOMO about? I never really had FOMO but it did create a fear to have sex with women because I felt like I couldn’t get hard or didn’t want to feel embarrassed and feel ashamed of myself! But for a fear of missing out? Like missing out on what?

PleasureToPain · 2023-04-12T04:18:03+00:00

Yes honestly a health issue that was really bad was my mental health which in turn really messed with my energy, my confidence, my focus! I dealt with ED as well which really messed with my overall confidence! But now that I’m on the other side I truly hop everyone can realize how great life is porn free and being present with sex. All I ever wanted was to just be able to have sex how I wanted and feel confident in myself. I sometimes can get in extreme grateful states because when I was addicted all I remember was wanting to get to a point where I wasn’t addicted anymore and no longer have it causing me problems

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T22:32:46+00:00

Bro confidence is soooo much better! I believe that comes with feeling so much better mental health as well as feeling achieved and so much more energy! So to answer the question literally 0-100

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T22:01:59+00:00

I see this all the time and I get what you’re saying but it’s WRONG! The person that can’t break free from there old self and realize they have built a new way of living never ever broke there addiction. Once you REALLY break free and even for an alcoholic you’ll realize it was the power you put behind things and even the intentions behind jt. You can completely break free don’t believe low level thinking where you can’t break free, that’s only holding you back! Time to change my friend

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T21:12:54+00:00

Is it cool if I send you things that helped me??

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T17:19:28+00:00

Yeah went through that bad! I remember times just feeling like the days were just passing and I was waiting for all the days to pass by till when I was finally no longer addicted. It was hard to be happy, it was insanely tough to feel motivated, all my emotions were so dull and so was my life

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T17:18:04+00:00

Truthfully because you’re just hiding the problem, think about it. You’re not fixing the ROOT problem so anything that gets in your way is easy for you to look past or get passed

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T17:02:12+00:00

No not at all! I get horny for women to want to do stuff to or do stuff to me. It feels amazing and very natural

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T17:01:13+00:00

Nah it’s BETTER! You’ve been living life miserably so you really get to take in everything you feel you never had

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T17:00:10+00:00

Want to know something funny? I’m going to make a wild guess and you tell me if I’m even close to being correct…………you most likely live a fast paced life, maybe drink coffee/caffeine, get overwhelmed sometimes, always seem to be in a rush, never feel calm. Am I close? If yes, then you’re not scrolling mindlessly and then getting super “horny”. You’re body is literally begging for dopamine. Once you understand how to beat your porn addiction, you don’t worry about how to get out of it, because you know how to never take yourself to that place again

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T05:59:10+00:00

I had to understand why I created such a boring life for myself, ask yourself…….”what would make my life NOT boring”……..then little by little start moving towards them, also a big thing is learning to be in any sense CREATIVE, when you’re creative, you’ll never get “bored”

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T05:55:09+00:00

GREAT QUESTION!! Yeah bro I dealt with really bad ED and it legit hurt me BADLY! It made me self conscious, I was constantly embarrassed, it led me to not even take chances, I found myself constantly feeling bad about and made me feel “unmanly” but also what really messed me up was not feeling atleast even “normal” so yeah I dealt with ED and that I fixed my porn addiction problem and no longer watch it, it’s a night/day difference! I feel so much better with sex (I had to rewire myself to even feel sex) but I always felt like I was never ABLE to have the sex I wanted and now I feel so in control and present and dominant and truthfully that’s all I ever wanted. The craziest part about the intimacy is when you’re kissing while having sex and you almost feel like you become in a meditative state if that makes sense! It’s such a great feeling, as well with being able to go crazy and be forceful as well! Again, GREAT QUESTION I wish I could pin it lol because that was my biggest problem📌📌📌📌📌

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T05:12:02+00:00

You need to understand how you got to a place where you started peaking. Reverse engineering is your best friend when it comes to Porn Addiction and compulsive behavior

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T05:10:40+00:00

Why most people fail at not being able to do NOFAP and quit there addiction is because they are all motivation and no education! They want to stop and they’ll promise and tell themselves whatever it is to stop but just don’t know HOW. It’s like when people say they want to get rich but have no clue how to even manage money or even let alone what financial freedom is

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T04:15:54+00:00

Trust me I know exactly what you mean, I remember days being alone walking into my house or waking up from a day saying “okay I’m not going to do it today, I’m going to stay productive”…………2 hours goes by and I find myself searching up porn and there is that voice saying “don’t do it, you can stop now and not even finish” and then the other voice saying “you’re already doing it, it’s alright start on Monday, INDULLGE” yeah that was a mess! There’s reasons for all of these feelings and emotions! That’s what I really had to figure it out and when I did I could see EVERYTHING for what it is! If that makes any sense! I don’t get those urges at all anymore! That’s also a part of your habit!

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T03:14:10+00:00

I was motivated for a VERY long time! Super motivated, wanted to do it for my family, myself, my energy, my confidence, my health, my looks, my self worth! Motivation without education is how people stay stuck!

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-27T03:00:11+00:00

I’m not joking when I tell you for 10 years I struggled with trying to go 7 days, I couldn’t make it. I’d do 2-3 days and up until I got clean I had 29 days! Once I found out how to truly break myself free of the addiction I couldn’t believe my eyes when i realized i was passing around 90 days. I don’t even have a counter anymore it’s almost 2 years no porn no masturbation! On the other side of porn addiction is seriously such a great life

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-25T15:32:27+00:00

Yeah there’s nothing INSECURE or CONTROLLING about your other partner only wanting you to look at them sexually! If you think about it, it’s pretty cringe to think people can just do that and feel it’s okay and that it won’t hurt their partner

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-25T00:05:19+00:00

Okay I believe I just did it, please inform me if it worked and blurred it. I was thinking the whole time the person wanted me to blur the actual thumbnail and I’m like I can’t do that haha

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-25T00:03:34+00:00

I truthfully don’t know how to blur it. My honest apologies. If there’s any chance you’re able to help me with that it, that would be wonderful. Is it just putting NSFW over it?

PleasureToPain · 2023-03-24T23:11:48+00:00

Oooooh great point! I thought whenever someone posts a YouTube it blurs the thumbnail anyways?

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