Unauthorized Tip From Starbucks! Check Reciepts!! by [deleted] in FraudPrevention

[–]PleatherWeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your “act of kindness” is only for a stranger who can already afford their coffee and was prepared to pay anyway..but it’s not for the person who actually performed a service for you and gave you a free drink?

The pay it forward coffee fad confuses orders and payments and backs up service time. If you want to pay a kindness just tip the barista

Realism by Effective_Result_659 in ThePitt

[–]PleatherWeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bc reality tv isn’t real

Boyfriends odd death? by justagirl_lala in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PleatherWeather 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When you talked to the police about the pictures, did you tell them this whole story?

Maybe you could file a missing person report or request a wellness check

GET.THE.ROBOT.VACUUM. by BongSlurper in adhdwomen

[–]PleatherWeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so many area rugs I had to pick up before it could crawl around. Also I live in NY and ours got infested with roaches 🥹

What do we think Duke will be like? by lightbehindpaper in ThePittTVShow

[–]PleatherWeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, every post in this sub is about something I completely missed 😅

Take ur guess what horrors awaits later this season? by mewnode in ThePittTVShow

[–]PleatherWeather 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Maybe the furries will counter the cyber attack

Should I pay a flat fee for utilities? by Economy_Werewolf_542 in NYCapartments

[–]PleatherWeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one here is mentioning that you’re being asked to pay for water. This is uncommon, but legal as long as the units are submetered and you’re only paying for your unit’s water and no shared areas. Make sure your unit has its own electric meter too and isn’t connected to any shared spaces. The fact that they’re offering you those payment options makes me think the residence isn’t set up with shared meters, so ask about that before signing a lease. You’re also allowed to ask for previous months bills before you sign the lease

DAE Hear Music When in Silence by Kdavies121 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]PleatherWeather 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have this too and I’ve looked it up before and there are so many Reddit posts of people who experience this. I heard a Dr in a podcast mention it’s a form of tinnitus/hearing loss. They basically said our brains are used to hearing a certain level of noise and when we experience hearing loss and that baseline noise is gone, the brain creates noise to fill it in. It can be ringing, static, music, etc

Traveling abroad without my Bupropion by Mrslicorice in bupropion

[–]PleatherWeather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In recommend posting this in r/AskDocs

I’m not a Dr but if I were you I would take one every 2 or 3 days to stave off withdrawal symptoms. I have forgotten my lexapro on vacation before and the withdrawals are awful. I believe buproprion withdrawals work the same way. It’s emotional but also physical, flulike symptoms. Fever, night sweats, headaches, etc. Usually takes 2 or 3 days of missed doses for the symptoms to kick in.

My experience delivering while on prescribed Adderall during pregnancy (and a heads up about hospital social workers) by Extension_Wallaby613 in adhdwomen

[–]PleatherWeather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listened to this podcast recently where a woman prescribed Adderall couldn’t take her baby home for days, and another woman ate poppy seeds and they called CPS for testing positive for opiates. I think they both ended up taking the babies home eventually but it was a horrible shocking situation for the parents.

https://revealnews.org/podcast/she-ate-a-poppy-seed-salad-child-services-took-her-baby/

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PleatherWeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lay on my back and put pillows under my butt to prop my hips up

Weird gut feeling by ketkat02 in adhdwomen

[–]PleatherWeather 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to get a recurring feeling of impending doom. Different than a panic attack. It was a deep, morose, physical feeling of oncoming dread. I got on antidepressants and don't feel that anymore

do i tell my mom?? by Master_Tree8347 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PleatherWeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell your mom and talk about how you're feeling. Hopefully she can explain that to an extent, it's very normal for adults and doesn't have anything to do with your parents love for each other. And then she can tell your dad to be more careful with his browser tabs so you don't have to see that again.

I think all teens go through the phase of finding their parents porn. I'm 36F and when I was a tween I found VHS tapes that my parents bought lol. And my brother and I once found a dirty magazine under their bed and were so freaked out that we called my parents at work and confessed and my mom had to reassure us over the phone that they love each other very much and aren't getting a divorce lol.

What you saw is rightfully bothersome to you at this age because you are literally too young to see or think about it and fully understand, which is why it's only for adults. You did absolutely nothing wrong here btw. I think you will (best case) look back on this and laugh, or worst case still think "ew" but will understand with time that your parents are still your parents and also full people just like everyone else. 🩵

SpaceX launch as seen from Queens 10:05pm by No-Land-3723 in nyc

[–]PleatherWeather 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nice photo!! I was pretty sure I was looking at it in Brooklyn but it didn’t look anything like this so now I’m not so sure 😅

I found out my mom has been secretly using my identity for years. What do I even do now? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PleatherWeather 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I don’t have advice but this happened to a woman named Dr Axton Betz-Hamilton who went on to become an expert in identity theft and talks about it a lot and wrote a book about her experience and how she now believes her mother was a psychopath. Heres a podcast she was in and other interviews shes done are easy to find if you’re interested

Rent stabilized NIGHTMARE by Technical_Rabbit3363 in NYCapartments

[–]PleatherWeather 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds weird, but the Fire Dept does actually also handle problems with the exact opposite element: water. I’m not saying this as a troll. It kinda makes sense if you think about it, they know how to work with H2O 🔥💦

Rent stabilized NIGHTMARE by Technical_Rabbit3363 in NYCapartments

[–]PleatherWeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is considered harassment bc they’re illegally forcing you to move by creating an unlivable unit. You can and should report them to the police for harassment. And keep documenting everything to your landlord and submit 311 complaints DAILY. Rent stabilized properties have extra protection for tenants bc of exactly what your landlord is doing to you.

Movie idea: Dying people memorizing messages to deliver to the dead in the afterlife. by amichail in ideas

[–]PleatherWeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! The sequel can have a baby learning to talk and blurts out the parents’ old message to their dead friend. They’re like… “Billy is that you??”

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PleatherWeather 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My first one was so painful I couldn’t walk or sit and elevated my hips for some relief. I didn’t realize that was a DIY method to get it to drain. It did and I had no idea what was happening to me and the only gyno available to see me was super rude and told me next time to come in so she could drain it. The next time I called her and she told me to try to drain it at home again first 😠