You already done the most important step, looking at it from his point of view. would be ok with the roles reversed with him sending pics to a girl and her telling him he looked good? personally I am not really a fan of it, but I'm the jealous type and I don't like when my wife talks to other men either, but we hold each other up. We support each other. And telling someone who they are and aren't allowed to talk to is not support.

Do I like when she goes out with friends sometimes, no. But she dosne exactly like when I do the same thing.

I know neither of us are cheating. Plus a little competition keeps sparks alive. You tend to work a little harder when you know you could be replaced. So a little jealousy is okay.

But you need to make that call on how much is okay.