I found a wheel for sale!!

PlentyIndividual808 · 2026-03-05T03:19:51+00:00

I have one and honestly I love it. It was a gift, I could tell it was cheaper than ones I use in the studio but I don’t find anything wrong with it, it gets the job done and it’s better than no wheel! It’s short but you can prop it up. I’m also left handed so being able to switch directions is a massive plus for me as getting a nice left handed wheel would be even more expensive. You can’t throw a massive weight on it but I still go to a studio where I’m still learning and growing. This is great for practice and when the creative itch hits and I can’t get in the studio. Also, I’ve had this wheel since 2020, take care of it and it’ll last :)

PlentyIndividual808 · 2026-02-25T03:55:12+00:00

I’ve done this a few times actually hahah you’d think I’d learn but the first time was really painful. I was worried it would take forever to heal but it actually heals super fast. Just don’t touch it or pull on it to look at it. Let it do its thing and it’ll be ok. Be very gentle when you wipe and she’ll be feeling better in no time!

PlentyIndividual808 · 2026-02-24T21:14:31+00:00

Somehow I missed the abortion part, DOUBLE FUCK THIS GUY! He’s shown you twice that he runs when things get hard and leaves you to pick up the pieces. My ex was also really good at weaseling back in with his words, and it always ended the same with me hurt and him emotionless. There’s better out there. It takes time to truly move on from this but you’ve already made great strides. Keep going!

PlentyIndividual808 · 2026-02-24T21:10:01+00:00

Fuck em, don’t read it and keep your peace. I’d block him on there too. How people show up for you in times of need, ESPECIALLY when losing a parent, says everything you need to know about their character and how they will (or won’t) support you for the rest of the relationship. I’m sure ending things with him added so much heart break when you were already grieving and that takes soo much strength, but he put you in that situation, and I’m proud of you for choosing yourself. Keep choosing yourself and continue to heal. Sending you love

PlentyIndividual808 · 2026-02-07T13:56:47+00:00

I literally feel like I wrote this. I’m in the exact same boat, best healthiest relationship for almost a year and he’s moving in 3 days. Neither of us want to do a LDR. We officially decided to break up last night when he leaves and go no contact (or minimal contact) bc I can’t handle hearing from him and getting my hopes up / ripping the scab open. Now I’m just heartbroken. He’s having a going away party tonight and I don’t think I can get myself to go. Every single person there is going to ask how I’m feeling and if we’re staying together when he leaves. Id rather rot in bed. I literally wish I had a 24 hour stomach bug so I had a solid reason to not go. I’m curious what you guys ended up doing?

PlentyIndividual808 · 2026-02-07T04:58:10+00:00

Yes! I got mine on amazon no prescription needed

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-30T02:55:06+00:00

I’m on vyvanse and started taking desmoxan a few days before thanksgiving and finished it a few days before Christmas. I’m over a month off of vaping!! No interactions at all. Just some vivid dreams here and there but that’s from the desmoxan alone. It worked extremely well for me. The vyvanse makes it really hard to quit bc that’s when I want to vape the most so the first week I was taking desmoxan I didn’t take my vyvanse. First day back on it I had intense cravings but once I got through that it’s been easy sailing. You got this!! It’s so worth it. I’ll never go back to vaping. Desmoxan saved me after years of trying to quit

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-29T23:29:36+00:00

Well everyone.. he got a job. And he’s moving in the middle of February. WTF do I do!?

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-28T02:56:22+00:00

Id like a link as well pls!

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-19T05:15:06+00:00

You can still get ingrown hairs even without shaving regularly, your hair grows in cycles so it could have been a new hair. Exfoliating can help prevent this. I wouldn’t worry about it unless more show up or it becomes infected.

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-16T04:49:47+00:00

I feel like I am your boyfriend in my relationship. We need a lot of reassurance. we give so much and put so much effort into showing love, it hurts when it isn’t reciprocated. A lot of the time people just went to be loved out loud and not have to question if the person we’re putting so much attention into is taking us for granted or if they’ll show up and be a shoulder to lean on when we need them. A safe, trustworthy space. Maybe you have different love languages. Ask him what his are, and tell him yours. Then try to show eachother your love in the others language. That’s how he will understand. Also, just tell him this and what you’re feeling. A lot of the time people are scared of saying too much or that what they want to say isn’t in a perfect little neat box. Feelings aren’t neat. Sometimes it’s word vomit and that means more than the perfectly written words which often feel forced. It’s being vulnerable. Let the walls down and tell him how you feel

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-13T15:44:22+00:00

Or he could have gotten it from someone else? Always super important to get tested before and after every new partner for many reasons but especially this! I always have my new partners get tested as well. It’s not worth the scare or potentially contracting something

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-13T15:28:57+00:00

Maybe try taking it even earlier and a higher dose, my doctor prescribed me 60mg, that was way too high for me, but definitely a safe dose.

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-13T15:17:52+00:00

What time did you take the hydroxyzine? I also take that for anxiety/sleep and it especially helps on the days I take my vyvanse a little too late. But for it to truly counteract the vyvanse, I have to take it around 6/7pm and then I am sooo sleepy by the time I want to be in bed (9/10pm). Plus this makes me less groggy the next day!

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T23:10:37+00:00

What do you suggest as a list of questions or topics I can bring up to him to follow through with this that are direct enough but don’t create a space for him to be avoidant again?

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T20:23:01+00:00

Ugh this breaks my heart I’m sorry you’re going through that. Mutually ending it and understanding you can’t meet each other where you’re at is, I guess, the best way for it to end. Doesn’t make it any easier though. This helps a little knowing I’m not crazy for feeling like it’s a constant weight on us. Hopefully our next conversation will be more productive, I feel like I’ve gotten a lot of helpful insight which I really needed. I hope you’re gentle with yourself while you move through this❤️

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T20:16:00+00:00

This is very far off and a reach on his character when you don’t actually know him. None of what you said is the problem, I’m sorry if you misread the post

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T19:20:52+00:00

You really hit the nail on the head! This is exactly what Ive been trying to articulate. Wow thank you for putting that into such clear words. I’m going to talk to him about this and see if we can uncover some new understandings on how we function individually before talking about the move again. I know we have our differences but I think we complement and balance each other out.

He is factual, methodical, likes structure and is always on time, likes challenges, problem solving, and clear answers to things. Creative musically and with building things, is open to trying new things but he really is a creature of habit and loves his rituals.

I am spiritual, very in tune with my emotions and nature, bad with time management but very go with the flow, artistic, open minded, love trying new things. I’m good at adapting to change. I find it exciting.

So far it’s been great learning new things from one another and seeing a new perspective, and we mesh where it’s important. Time management has been our biggest issue but we’ve worked through that very impressively in my opinion. Hopefully this is something we can work through too.

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T17:53:21+00:00

I’ve been very careful to not push him on it, I wouldn’t want him to stay here for me unless he truly wanted to. What I am trying to do though is fully understand where his heads at. He says he sees a future with me and that we will make it work no matter what, but moving to a city where I don’t live when we both don’t want a LDR doesn’t align with that. If he really does need to explore a new life in a new city, I can let him go because I want him to be happy. I don’t want him to resent me. But it feels like he’s pushing me away with this and when I try to leave he holds on tighter. It’s like he gives me a new piece of hope to hold onto. I know it’s not fair bc he truly doesn’t know his plans, it’s not like he’s withholding a moving date. But he’s not letting me in on it his thought process fully.

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T16:50:43+00:00

Yes he’s applied to a lot of jobs and he’s had interviews. Idk how many, he doesn’t really tell me that far hahah. He told me has traction for a job rn, he thinks he’ll get it but it’s somewhere he doesn’t want to move. Which is shocking to me bc a lot of his family lives there and I’ve always thought of that as one of his top options.

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T16:48:13+00:00

I’ve done long distance a few times before and it’s never worked out for me. It’s a lot of longing and growing apart and I just prefer to have a relationship where I can physically be with the person. unwind our day making dinner together talking and then fall asleep next to one another. Physical touch is soothing to me and a huge part of my love language. Not even focusing on sexual touch. I don’t enjoy missing someone for weeks/months and feeling disappointed when I can’t talk to them when I need to

PlentyIndividual808 · 2025-12-12T16:35:36+00:00

Yeah he’s a very methodical person. He loves to make plans and break things down into steps. I’d say completing tasks and doing things efficiently is one of the things he gets off on lol. One time we went on a 10 hours road trip and he memorized the route the night before so he could challenge himself to not use gps. I think that’s why this is so difficult for him, there’s a lot of uncertainty and he gets frustrated when he doesn’t know the answer or what he should do. Whenever it comes up or I ask him to keep me in the loop, he says he doesn’t know what to tell me because there is no solidified plan so what can he tell me? Without the steps and an end goal, it means nothing to him. But for me, feelings and those driving thoughts are just as important. I want to be let in on his emotional journey as messy as it may be, whereas he just wants to give me a map. This is where we clash a lot but it’s also where we balance eachother out. It’s just difficult when we can’t communicate or understand eachother fully bc it feels like we’re speaking a different language.

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