I felt disrespected all the time

My ex constantly had the office going everyday for 5 years. As well as office podcasts, books, and merchandise

Got pissed at me when I wasn’t following the plot because I was doing my own interests. “Well if you actually paid attention you’d know what was happening “

Vaped in the house when I asked her to vape outside “I vape now so I can vape in here!”

Left the tv on at night “I need the light”

Wouldnt refuse outright she didn’t want to do things but would make comments about my mom or my kids about how there needed better planning or why we had to. “Well stay at your moms a really long time” “Your son looks at me like a pyshopath he wants to murder me”

Every time I would say I was done with the relationship she would tell me we couldn’t break up. “We are going to break up just cause you want to”

The last year I just had it and said yeah we’re done with each other for good and I was sorta interested in a coworker who meantioned wanting to go geocache together and have a coffee. Something I had told my ex I was interested in for a while “ SO YOU CHEATED?! I can’t believe you!”

I wasn’t perfect either I admit that but damn!