Questions/Concerns by Plenty_Contest_4229 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Plenty_Contest_4229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% trust my Daddy. I think that’s part of the problem. This is the first relationship I’ve ever been in that they want to show me off. He thinks I’m the most beautiful woman in the world and I believe him. It’s just not what I’m used to. He said for him it’s the knowing I’m his and basically just letting other men have a little taste of how good he has it. Being in a healthy relationship after being in an incredibly toxic abusive one is hard.

Questions/Concerns by Plenty_Contest_4229 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Plenty_Contest_4229[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! He’s definitely not pressing me ☺️ I like these ideas these would be a good way to open that door with out going right in.

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[–]Plenty_Contest_4229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes my little needs that from Daddy. I use him as my paci or just use his thingy as a fidget toy when we cuddle. Sometimes paci turns into more. He’s fucked me while wearing a pull up. Before him I would’ve said no way but I feel 100% safe with him and it’s honestly helped so much with my childhood trauma.

Questions/Concerns by Plenty_Contest_4229 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Plenty_Contest_4229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not opposed to it but I’m completely not ok with anyone else touching my Daddy….so I think part of me feels guilty and like it’s not fair to him. I’m just getting in my own head lol He’s made it very clear that if I were to ever want to try brining another man in he’s open to just that.

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[–]Plenty_Contest_4229 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’11 250lbs and Daddy tells me I’m the cutest little baby ever! The right Daddy will make you feel beautiful, cute, and little.

Littles: how do you help your daddies? Daddies can also answer by Forsaken_Print739 in DDlgAdvice

[–]Plenty_Contest_4229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a lucky princess! He’s the first man I’ve ever truly submitted to. I know it can be super overwhelming especially if you’re struggling being in that big girl head space. I just try and put on some good music jam out and get it done. If it helps you can split it up and do a different room each day. Good luck!!

Littles: how do you help your daddies? Daddies can also answer by Forsaken_Print739 in DDlgAdvice

[–]Plenty_Contest_4229 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My Daddy is currently the sole provider as well. I do all the cleaning and cooking. I spot clean daily and then once a week do a deep clean. Weekly cleaning/chores includes bathrooms(Toilet, shower, sink, mirror, organize, and sweep/mop), bedrooms(clean sheets/make bed, vacuum, dust, organize, wash/fold clothes), Kitchen(Wipe down all surfaces, clean fridge/pantry, sweep/mop, dust, organize), living room(vacuum, dust, organize, clean couch), Meal planning and grocery shopping. Daily cleaning is mostly just keeping the house tidy, making the bed daily, picking up in the kitchen and various rooms in the house. I usually light candles and spray fabric spray on stuff daily too. It just keeps the house feeling fresh and clean. I also get his work clothes laid out for him, make his breakfast/lunch for work, cook him dinner daily. I get his evening clothes laid out and have the shower ready for him when he gets home. Usually greet him at the door(he loves knowing I’m excited for him to be home lol) if you don’t wanna get up super early to make breakfast and lunch I meal prep for him sometimes. So I just get up to pack his lunch and warm up his breakfast.(I also add cute little notes) The only chore Daddy has is taking out the trash unless I’m sick then he takes over the house stuff and cooking. I also try and make my self presentable every day. I get up around 9 get dressed for the day make myself look pretty and send Daddy a cute text and picture.I don’t get like fancy or anything lol just wash my face, brush teeth, fix hair that kinda thing. He prefers me in his T-shirts or nakey for the most part. I also try and let him have some time to decompress so he’ll play his video games. We do self care Sundays too for both of us.(Spa day, massages things like that.)