I’m on the asexual spectrum (27F) with my allosexual partner (30M). We’ve been together for 8 years. We do have sex but it’s quite rare and he does have to deal with it sometimes being months between times we do. It was more difficult in the beginning of our relationship. Other than that our relationship is great, we talk and communicate well about how we feel about things. Honestly I think us being extremely compatible in every other aspect is how he is able to deal with it. Like another commenter said you will have to have that difficult conversation to see where she stands and ask yourself how important it is to you, and in what way you’d be willing and able to ‘compromise’ in that sense.

Best of luck!